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Am I odd, or is this normal?

So, this year has been rough and crazy as all hell.  I left my abusive XH in early February, moved out of state in July to start over at a new teaching job, and was legally divorced in early December.  I'm happy and healthy, and in a good relationship with a genuinely good man, and we adore each other.

 

Last Christmas was my worst on record.  I was abjectly miserable.  This year is almost its polar opposite.  Even my extended family that I hardly see commented repeatedly how great I was to see me happier than I have been in at least five years. As I'm getting ready for my date tonight, I found myself getting a bit emotional at the contrast between this year and last year.  Given, it's mainly happiness and gratitude, but it just struck me as odd.  

 

All of this to say: is this emotional-ness normal, or am I just odd? 

Re: Am I odd, or is this normal?

  • I think it is normal to be emotional.  It is really normal to look back on things as the new year approaches.  I know, for me, when things go well after a period of things going badly, I sometimes have trouble not "waiting for the other shoe to drop."  Try to enjoy what is going on now.  I am so glad you are out of an abusive relationship and on to bigger and better things.  Happy New Year!
  • 100% normal. I found myself doing the same thing recently.
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  • Oh, I totally cried on NYE 2011. I was at a party and bawling like a baby. Nothing particularly bad happened that day, but I was just so emotional at the changes that happened in 2010 and I was so looking forward to a new, fresh year in 2011. I was really happy that last night's new year didn't even phase me. I am really satisfied with my life right now and it's great!

    Here's to a wonderful 2012! 

  • Totally normal. 
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  • I find it odd that you would think that that might be odd.
  • Totally normal. Even though I am completely happy with where I am at in life, if I let my thoughts consume me I will end up emotional about the littlest things. 
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