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Intro...
Hey there ladies!
I have been lurking for a little bit and I thought I would take this time to introduce myself...I was married for about 2 years to an alcoholic....We were together for 5 years before we got married. His drinking got much worse when we got married...Either way, I ended up leaving him about a 2 years ago. I found myself in an awful relationship after that...Found out the man I thought I was going to be with forever was actually married with 2 kids and 1 on the way....Um yah, he lived two lives. Disaster! With that being said, I finally moved on, found a house I have fallen in love with, got a dog which I must say is like having a child even though I love her dearly and met who I believe is my soul mate...Along the broken road, a lot of good has come and I'm finally looking forward to a new year....I'm happy to meet you ladies and look forward to our conversations... 
Re: Intro...
Your best bet:
A moratorium to dating for at least a year, maybe 2.
You've already got a track record for choosing the wrong men. See a counselor; nip this in the bud. GL.