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Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
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Thank you.
Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.
Can't believe I forgot!
XH did a twitter mention thingy on NEY. A mutual friend told me to not be suspicious because it makes me look like abitch... She thinks he was drunk. Um he cheated and I kicked him out in April of '09, I recently (Sept.) talked to him briefly about his grandmother who got sick. I was close to her and went to lunch with her up until I moved across the country... Very brief "what nursing home is she in and what's her condition?" I was able to contact her myself after that. Anyway... I got "hey, so... happy new years. Hope you and bf (sp?) are having a good one! (Even though its not quite 12 there yet) enjoy it!" He spelled out BF's name... I showed BF. We both thought it was weird... I don't think me being "suspcious" makes me look like abitch, we have no kids so there really is no reason for talking.
Re: Can't believe I forgot!
I don't get it either...
Sorry.. Posting before coffee = incoherent thoughts lol!
I forgot to tell you all about XH randomly making a twitter post to me acting like we're friends and telling me and BF to have a happy new year. We don't have kids so we never talk except in Sept when I asked about his grandmother. This was totally out of nowhere. When I told a mutual friend of ours about it, and that I thought it was weird that he did this, she told me that acting suspicious about it comes off as me being abitch and she thinks he was just being nice. I am a little annoyed by that comment because I find it totally strange that XH would try to be nice out of nowhere. Am I wrong for thinking this is weird or is said friend of base here? I was also trying to point out that I have no reason to ever WANT to be civil or friendly with him as he cheated on me with my at the time best friend. They are still together and I want nothing to do with either of them. Does that make more sense then my first post? Lol!
That does make more sense, but honestly it doesn't sound like that friend is a mutual one, it sounds like she's more his friend than yours. If my XH had cheated on me and I told one of my friends he then contacted me wishing me and BF a Happy New Year, she wouldn't call me bitchy (obviously I'm paraphrasing your situation a bit). She would say "he's weird and dumb - ignore him" - or something a lot more colorful.
In other words - IMO your friend is off base. It's weird.
This was via text or twitter?
Either way - weird and your friend is weird too.