Starting Over
Dear Community,
Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
If you have questions about this, please email help@theknot.com.
Thank you.
Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.
Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
If you have questions about this, please email help@theknot.com.
Thank you.
Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.
Intro
Hello! I have been lurking around for a while and I really think I could use the wonderful support you girls give each other. Just a little on my background...In Late June my STBXH told me he was not happy and was going to be staying at a friends sort through hiatus thoughts. Instantly I took my 2 kids (1 to him, 1 from a previous relationship) and moved back to my parents' house. Two weeks later I found out he had a gf. We live in a very smal town so I am surprised it took me that long to find out. Since then he has played mind games with me constantly, telling me he knows he messed up and he is not happy but he has not let her. In October I had papers wrote up for a dissolution, which he told me to do and then he refused to sign. So I decided to let things ride for a while since the holidays were coming. Now it's January and things have not changed, I know what has to be done. I have an appointment with an attorney on the 11th. Now that I have had time to look back on things, I realize that we do not have much in common and I do not agree with things he does. I read a post the other day when someone said they used to overlook so many things that their so used to do and I realized that is what I did for so long and it makes me so angry to think I could do that. I feel like I chested myself by doing that. In these last 6 months I have realized whata selfish lying jerk he really is.I have so much more to tell you all but will save it for later. I look forward to getting to know you all and thank you in advance for your support.
Re: Intro
Welcome!
The people on this board are great!
Welcome! I have not been on here for very long, as this is all pretty new to me, but I have found the people on here very welcoming, and I have also found a ton of comfort from reading posts from people who have gone through something similar to what I am going through.
I wish you all the best.