We got back from my parents' house late last night after spending a week there.
DH checked in with his mom almost daily, as FIL was having a bad week when we left. THe updates while we were gone weren't any better and DH got really emotional on Saturday (FIL's birthday).
He has been at their house all day today. He will probably be down there a lot in the near future. He's pretty convinced that FIL doesn't have a lot of time left. I'm not so convinced, only because there have been bad periods in the past, but am still concerned for DH because obviously this is affecting him a lot. But it stirs up a lot of emotions in both of us so it's sort of clouding our own stuff lately. Like, we had a good time with my fam, but he was very distracted.
I don't know what we need T&Ps for... I mean, I don't want FIL to be suffering and it appears as if he is right now, so I guess I hope he's not in a lot of pain, but I also don't care for the man so I have to keep my feelings in check (and not say a lot of my thoughts to DH). But I want DH to find peace, and I worry about MIL... I don't know. Just needed to say this all to someone.
Re: On a serious note... (T&Ps I guess?)
Absolutely this. Thoughts & prayers heading your way....
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