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Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
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Lingerie
If you are into sexy lingerie and costumes how soon in a relationship do you break out the lingerie and fun outfits?
I am always self concious about this and usually wait until I am in a relationship to bring out the fun. Now that I am single again I am planning on being more fun in the boudoir during the dating phase.
Thanks for your help!
Re: Lingerie
I usually always wear really sexy bra and panty sets, I kinda see how he reacts to that and then work up to more accessories like stockings and then go into costumes.
My last FWB loved it for months until he decided the fact that I had so much lingerie made me a slore. But he was a special case:)
I'm a big fan of garter belts and corsets as gateway lingerie. If I'm wearing a dress, I actually find thigh-high nude stockings with a garter belt more comfortable than traditional pantyhose anyway. So when my outfit comes off, I'm wearing sexy (but legitimate) lingerie. The same thing goes for a sexy corset. It can serve as a strapless bra or shapewear, so you don't have to worry as much about looking like a brazen hussy for wearing sexy lingerie underneath.
Also, I've found that lingerie is very much a matter of taste. My last boyfriend insisted he was not at all into lingerie, but it turns out that he just hated really girly or childish looks like flouncy babydolls and lace slips. He thought corsets, garters, and half-slips were awesome. But until I figured this out, his reaction was often "meh" which really killed my libido and hurt my self esteem. (What kind of girl wants to show up in a sexy outfit and have a guy say act completely uninterested?!)
So with my current boyfriend, after a very positive reaction to some sexy bra & panty sets, I decided to just talk about it early on and get his tastes figured out. I needed to clear out some wardrobe space anyway, so I modeled my whole collection for him and let him decide what he really wanted me to keep. Of course I'll eventually buy some new things, but I have a pretty good idea what he'll like!
i always have the sexy bra/panty sets as well, i wear those every day.
but for my fun lingerie i have so much of it....and i broke it out pretty early. i love dressing up in it....granted now that it's winter that has put a damper on the cooking in lingerie and all, because even though the pellet stove says the house is 70 degrees....is is NOT 70 degrees in all parts of the house.