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They have called my H and left messages and one even knocked on the door (he didnt answer) trying to figure out why I am not at the house.
f.k.a.= Derniermot
Re: nosey noserson neighbors
That's effing ridiculous.
If it was me I would probably give a smartass response like "oh I killed her and buried her in the backyard."
Well actually I would want to but with people that nosey I would be affraid the cops would show up at my doorstep.
I called him to let him know I am coming to the house today (I need more of my clothes [I may also try to take a nightstand] and want to visit with my pets).
We were all friendly. The neighborhood is full of retired persons who are nosey nosersons.
When we first moved to the neighborhood my car died and I had it towed away. The guy across the street hobbled over and yelled at the tow guy telling him not to repo my car because I am the kind of girl that pays my bills. He even wrote down the license plate of the tow truck.
I came home from work really early one day (I was sick) and one of them called my H to ask why I was home so early.
I wouldn't assume the worst of your neighbors. If they didn't know you had marital problems and didn't see you, they might be assuming that you are in the hospital or have left to take care of a mother/father who was sick and needed help.
My neighbors would do the same thing, and are the type who would bring over food for H / the kids to eat while I was gone, or would visit me at the hospital.
Maybe I'm just a private person, but that would creep me out, unless I had specifically asked them to keep an eye on things. I'm all for waving at my neighbors and saying hi when I see them out walking, and perhaps even getting together for dinner sometimes, but that seems like a level of familiarity that I would reserve for good friends.