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KU girls

why do you think you don't have sex that much now??
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  • Well at first of all I was scared. 1st pregnancy ending in a m/c has a way of everything freaking you out. Second of all I was sicker than sick most of the time and so tired that it was the last thing on my mind. I think in the first trimester we did the deed about 3-4 times.

    Now, simply because I think we've gotten a little out of the habit, but I also don't feel the need to get "it on" all the time anymore.. lower sex drive now that I'm KTFU or something.. Smile  So if we do it once every 1 1/2-2 weeks it's to make DH happy. That being said I don't mind once we get going it's the initial thought of having to do the deed. Also.. laying on my back isn't comfortable anymore, as well as kneeling.. so we have to improvise.

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  • at first we were scared, and it was awkward....we don't want those infant eyes to see what's going on Wink . yeah, baby can't see anything, but really, it's weird. i don't think we had sex at all during first tri. maybe once.

    after that, i'm pretty sure my v-card grew back. every time we tried, it hurt. i cried. it hurt really really bad. we stopped...so i don't know if that "counts". sometimes i just put up with it...we just go slow. we've only done it a total of 4...maybe 5 times? since we found out we were ktfu.

    we do things orally though to get us through the long, cold, lonely nights Wink

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    at first we were scared, and it was awkward....we don't want those infant eyes to see what's going on Wink . yeah, baby can't see anything, but really, it's weird. i don't think we had sex at all during first tri. maybe once.

    after that, i'm pretty sure my v-card grew back. every time we tried, it hurt. i cried. it hurt really really bad. we stopped...so i don't know if that "counts". sometimes i just put up with it...we just go slow. we've only done it a total of 4...maybe 5 times? since we found out we were ktfu.

    we do things orally though to get us through the long, cold, lonely nights Wink

    This reminds me of one of the first times that we had sex after I was KTFU.. As DH went to penetrate I jokingly said.. oh the baby's looking at you.. haha.. he pulled out so fast it was kinda funny! 

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  • For me it was feeling gross but by the last 6 or 8 weeks it was amazing (and no fear of getting KU again Wink)
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  • Pregnancy hormones kill my sex drive, I think. :P That's part of why I quit hormonal birth control!
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