S/O arguments: Do you "fight" the same way as your SO?

babyaustin725 · January 2012

James is confrontational and often fights dirty. I will run from conflict, and often bottle things up.

sarack · January 2012

babyaustin725:
James is confrontational and often fights dirty. I will run from conflict, and often bottle things up.

H bottles things up. I'm more confrontational.

Well I used to be, I've been really trying to calm it down.. I like to talk things out, A LOT.

jennlin · January 2012

h bottles things up... it usually has to do with my lack of cleaning/organizing, and the way he remedies it is to clean up himself....and bang pots and pans while he's at it. other than cleaning, i'm a perfect wife Wink

if something bothers me, i tell him. he'll say okay, and we fix the problem.

our "spats" last about 3 lines each, if that.

Nutrguru · January 2012

jennlin:

h bottles things up... it usually has to do with my lack of cleaning/organizing, and the way he remedies it is to clean up himself....and bang pots and pans while he's at it. other than cleaning, i'm a perfect wife

if something bothers me, i tell him. he'll say okay, and we fix the problem.

our "spats" last about 3 lines each, if that.

Haha, this is totally me. I get irritated when my H was suppose to do something and neglects it so I make a huge production of doing it myself. He's a bottler.

CDMay2006 · January 2012

I like to discuss things as they arise (before they become patterns/problems) and dh's approach is to ignore things and bottle up related emotions. As such, most of our arguments come from him being upset by several small things i know nothing about, all at once. He hates my approach and i hate his

And almost all our arguments come from mis/under communication, so they are all resolved, just not always pleasant.

mgoss228 · January 2012

CDMay2006:
I like to discuss things as they arise (before they become patterns/problems) and dh's approach is to ignore things and bottle up related emotions. As such, most of our arguments come from him being upset by several small things i know nothing about, all at once. He hates my approach and i hate his And almost all our arguments come from mis/under communication, so they are all resolved, just not always pleasant.

This is me and DH exactly, except I'm the one who ignores/bottles small things.

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