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non clicky sex poll: how often

how often do you have sex on an average week? be honest.
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Re: non clicky sex poll: how often

  • right now? none.

    when we were ttgktfu--2, 3, or 4 times when ovulating, once or less (zero was common) when not

    when we were on bcp-- once-ish. maybe less. sometimes, rarely, twice.

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  • on time i counted that within 22 days we had sex 6 times. i think we do it once a week.. twice tops.. sometimes we get fancy and do it like 4 times one week and then we forget to do it the next week.. so it still averages out to twice.

    i remember the days, in our teens and early twenties, when we did it 3x a day.... crazy. my vag hurts just thinking about that.

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  • Oh how I miss sex... It hurts too much right now. =( Have lots for me ladies... K?
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  • in the last year its gone way down. Like three times a month? i have had such low sex drive ever since starting a med three years ago. But on the upside, i really enjoy it once i get in the mood and always O. 
  • As long as AF's not around, we usually average 3 or 4 times a week. 
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  • right now? maybe once every other week

    Normally (being before I got KU)? about 2-4 times a week. 

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  • Eh, it's all over the place. I'm pretty much guaranteed Saturday morning sex, but I actually hate morning sex, but hey, I'm game.

    We'll go from 1-2-3-4 days a week to none for a week. Our schedules don't always mesh and his traveling schedule throws a wrench into things.

    Sarack - I remember those days too...though we weren't teenagers our early days were very long distance and were basically sex-fest for weekends.  

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  • I actually got an app on my phone to start keeping track because we would argue over how often we had sex haha

     Basically it depends on the time of year.  In Sept. when we got married and Oct. when we went on our honeymoon, it jumped to like 5-6 times a week haha.  Generally November/December it drops down a ton though, which I think is holiday stress, and I get weirdly depressed because all my family members die in Nov/Dec, but I'm like happy because I like the holidays? Anyways, the rest of the year it's on average about 1-2 times a week. 

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    i remember the days, in our teens and early twenties, when we did it 3x a day.... crazy. my vag hurts just thinking about that.

     and this!  I laughed so hard when I read this because it's so true!

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  • At least 2-3 times a week. December we were down to once a week because we were so tired from work, but now we're making up for it. We feel weird if we go too long without.

  • Right now we are looking at about once every couple weeks. I hardly ever see H and the 1 night a week I get to spend with him all night most of the time one or both of us is too tired.
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  • Dang, I need the app!
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  • Once every 7-10 days usually.  We go through phases of 3-4 times a week, but it always returns to the once every 7-10 days.  I have a higher drive than James, but even after being married 7 years, I have a hard time initiating. 
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    Dang, I need the app!

    this app would make me depressed. 

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  • Right now? Maybe once or twice a week? :-/ Pregnancy, blah.

    While TTC, we were at about once a day. XD Sometimes twice.

    Before TTC, our average was around three times a week.

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  • imagesarack:

    i remember the days, in our teens and early twenties, when we did it 3x a day.... crazy. my vag hurts just thinking about that.

    LOL, agreed!  I think one night when I was 19 DH and I made it to 4 times in a row.  BOTH of us were sore later...

    Now though, once a week is average.  I'm on bcp, I think w/o those we would average 2-3 times a week.

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    imagesarack:
    i remember the days, in our teens and early twenties, when we did it 3x a day.... crazy. my vag hurts just thinking about that.
    LOL, agreed!  I think one night when I was 19 DH and I made it to 4 times in a row.  BOTH of us were sore later...
    When we were living separately (grad school) there were several weekends with 3x/day, but prior to that it had been a few years since that was a common occurrence.  Absence makes the heart grow fonder, after all ;)

    Re: the app... charting includes a record of intercourse, so depressing or uplifting it's there in black and white for both of us to see.

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  • About twice a week. It varies though. We do it a lot more now that it doesn't hurt. Yay!
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