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Newborn sleep question help

Little Jillian is now a little over 2 weeks old.  She is great, but the only problem we have is that she wants to be held constantly, even while sleeping.  I would really like to be able to sleep in my bed again and not in a recliner.  Does anyone have any suggestions on how to get he to sleep without being held?
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Re: Newborn sleep question help

  • my only suggestion is a tight swaddle (try the miracle blanket maybe).  but we held DS for a long time and he slept with me for the first month or so...  we also tried putting a shirt that I had worn next to DS for the scent.
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  • This is probably not the answer you want, but I am a big fan of bed sharing.  If you choose to go this route, please research how to do it safely.  DD sleeps right next to me and I nurse side lying.  I haven't experienced any sleep deprivation.

    If you are going to sleep with LO, the recliner is a very unsafe place to do so.  Your bed is much safer.
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  • Swaddle and a Rock n Play - Coop was the same, but he felt cozy and "held" in the rock n play. :)
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  • Have you tried the swing or a bouncy seat? DD went through a phase where she would only sleep held until I found one day she would sleep in the swing - talk about freedom! The phase eventually passed and for a while I gave in a just held her, but maybe try a swing or bouncey seat and see if that works.

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    Swaddle and a Rock n Play - Coop was the same, but he felt cozy and "held" in the rock n play. :)

    Ditto.  Miracle Blanket and RNP were worth EVERY.CENT. (x2)

  • imagesmilelari:
    This is probably not the answer you want, but I am a big fan of bed sharing.  If you choose to go this route, please research how to do it safely.  DD sleeps right next to me and I nurse side lying.  I haven't experienced any sleep deprivation.

    If you are going to sleep with LO, the recliner is a very unsafe place to do so.  Your bed is much safer.

    Ditto. I SWORE I wouldn't bedshare, but a nurse in the hospital showed me how to nurse side lying and my life was changed. I was worried it would be long term (DH slept like crap, so it wasn't the best option), but she transitioned to a crib just fine after a relatively short time. 

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  • Heat up the mattress with a beanbag thing so you're not laying the baby down on a cold sheet.  Also, white noise, swaddle, try tummy sleep if you're comfy with it, try side sleep, snuggle with a blanket so it smells like you and then transfer to crib.  Where a moby wrap (or other soft carrier) all the time (I did this for at least the first 3 months of Emmaline's life because she was the worst sleeper!!).  Try the swing, vacuum. 

    Also, there's a difference between fussing to get out energy/stress/anxiety and all out crying.  Try to get comfy with some fussing and allow a couple minutes of it before rushing cribside ; )

    Good luck mama!!

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