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Newborn sleep question help
Little Jillian is now a little over 2 weeks old. She is great, but the only problem we have is that she wants to be held constantly, even while sleeping. I would really like to be able to sleep in my bed again and not in a recliner. Does anyone have any suggestions on how to get he to sleep without being held?
Re: Newborn sleep question help
If you are going to sleep with LO, the recliner is a very unsafe place to do so. Your bed is much safer.
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Have you tried the swing or a bouncy seat? DD went through a phase where she would only sleep held until I found one day she would sleep in the swing - talk about freedom! The phase eventually passed and for a while I gave in a just held her, but maybe try a swing or bouncey seat and see if that works.
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Ditto. I SWORE I wouldn't bedshare, but a nurse in the hospital showed me how to nurse side lying and my life was changed. I was worried it would be long term (DH slept like crap, so it wasn't the best option), but she transitioned to a crib just fine after a relatively short time.
Heat up the mattress with a beanbag thing so you're not laying the baby down on a cold sheet. Also, white noise, swaddle, try tummy sleep if you're comfy with it, try side sleep, snuggle with a blanket so it smells like you and then transfer to crib. Where a moby wrap (or other soft carrier) all the time (I did this for at least the first 3 months of Emmaline's life because she was the worst sleeper!!). Try the swing, vacuum.
Also, there's a difference between fussing to get out energy/stress/anxiety and all out crying. Try to get comfy with some fussing and allow a couple minutes of it before rushing cribside ; )
Good luck mama!!