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A 2012-style post, for posterity

It's on FM now, but I have a feeling it won't be for long.

 

 

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MAMANILSEN
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Need advice about getting thru to my husband.....

My husband and I are not seeing eye to eye lately and I'm worried that things might turn towards the wrong path. I understand that all marriages go thru a rough patch blah blah blah, but I just don't understand that if they were so loving and attentive at the beginning of the marriage, and they know how to do it, why does it just disappear? I have been really struggling lately to build on trust. My husband got caught in a lie about texting a girl and doesn't seem to understand why I freaked out! Or when he went out to the strip club after I bought him tickets to go to a concert...I don't have a problem with him going out with his friends and going to a strip club every so often, but he didn't call. So I'm the bad guy when I freak out with worry when he doesn't call and there is a blizzard and he is driving drunk...I just need to know how to get his bum back on track without feeling like his mother? Any ideas?

 

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Re: A 2012-style post, for posterity

  • I didn't even see that gem. Jeezus.
  • I think I probably just brought it one step closer to a DD.
    I agree with everything that muddled said. You should listen to her. -ESDReturns
  • I just want to know why he's driving drunk through a blizzard...
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  • imageoodakay:
    I just want to know why he's driving drunk through a blizzard...

    RIGHT?!  I know, blah blah texting blah, but wtf at driving drunk through a blizzard.

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  • If you drive on LSD through a blizzard it's like Star Wars.

     

    fyi

     

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    Yeah that's right my name's Yauch!
  • I can't say I've done that, but I do like to drive through the row of lit arches at the holiday light show and pretend I'm going through the Stargate to a Kuusmas planet.
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  • imageoodakay:
    I just want to know why he's driving drunk through a blizzard...

    Look, we need to thin the herd by whatever means necessary.  Wink

    Until you are happy with who you are, you will never be happy with what you have.
  • imagelaptopprancer:

    If you drive on LSD through a blizzard it's like Star Wars.

     

    fyi

     

    lmao

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  • imageReturnOfKuus:
    I can't say I've done that, but I do like to drive through the row of lit arches at the holiday light show and pretend I'm going through the Stargate to a Kuusmas planet.

    ooooh.

    Do James Spader and Kurt Russel live on Kuusmas Planet?

     

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    Yeah that's right my name's Yauch!
  • imagelaptopprancer:

    imageReturnOfKuus:
    I can't say I've done that, but I do like to drive through the row of lit arches at the holiday light show and pretend I'm going through the Stargate to a Kuusmas planet.

    ooooh.

    Do James Spader and Kurt Russel live on Kuusmas Planet?

     

     

    They coexist happily with Michael Shanks and Richard Dean Anderson.

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  • I'm picturing lots of bunnies.

    Go read my thread on Pets please and tell me if I'm insane.

     

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    Yeah that's right my name's Yauch!
  • It's not an atrocity or anything, but yeah, I was getting the impression that the kittens weren't too happy after a while, too.  I think it was the combination of the huge, woebegone eyes and the open mouths as though they're pleading for release.
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  • Ok, thank you. My husband was all annoyed with me for feeling like the kittens were reaching out to me, pleading for release from the box.

    The free play one is freaking adorable though.

     

     

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    Yeah that's right my name's Yauch!
  • Oh no, those kittens were looking straight into our souls. 
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  • off to go and try to stare down Gene for a while.

    I will fail.

     

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    Yeah that's right my name's Yauch!
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