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Work Question

Does your boss tell you when they are going to be late? Obviously, we all tell our bosses if we have doctor's appointment or something, but does your boss tell you? My boss is not in yet today, and we have not heard anything from him. He even missed a meeting he set up with his other direct report. We finally heard through the grapevine that he had a doctor's appointment this morning, but no word on when he may come in.

I thought this was weird, all my previous bosses have let the whole team know when they were going to be late or delayed. And he has a work provided iPhone, so it should be very easy for him to notify us.

But my friend said his boss doesn't tell him when she is going to be late, so maybe this more common than I think. It just struck me as odd, and I've never had a boss like this before.

Re: Work Question

  • Do you have access to his calendar? My boss wouldn't tell me if he would be out of the office for a few hours, but we all have access to each others' calendars and keep them up to date for appointments and leave.
  • my old boss in NYC used to "forget" to inform us when she had appointments or wasn't going to be in. even when her FIL passed away, she didn't even call our publisher (aka HER OWN BOSS) until mid-afternoon. i think that is very, very unprofessional and just plain disrespectful of everyone's time. and you know if you were the one who forgot to mention something like that, he would have had your @ss

    sorry you have to deal with that today! 

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  • imageMrsPhilDunphy:
    Do you have access to his calendar? My boss wouldn't tell me if he would be out of the office for a few hours, but we all have access to each others' calendars and keep them up to date for appointments and leave.

    at my current job, this is what we do 

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  • imageMrsPhilDunphy:
    Do you have access to his calendar? My boss wouldn't tell me if he would be out of the office for a few hours, but we all have access to each others' calendars and keep them up to date for appointments and leave.

    No, he hasn't given any of us access to his calendar. We had asked the one person who does have access, and this appointment wasn't on it anyway.

  • He usually doesn't send out an email or notice unless he needs to cancel a meeting, but his secretary posts his calendar on his office door every day, and if he's out, she will post a note there.
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  • imagecheekywife:

     and you know if you were the one who forgot to mention something like that, he would have had your @ss

    sorry you have to deal with that today! 

    Yeah, I had a doctor's appointment Friday, and I'm trying to imagine what would have happened if I had just taken off and not told him. I sent an email to him and copied the other two people on the team to let them know I'd be out. I'm surprised we got no notice at all, it kind of makes him look terrible when people stop by looking for him and ask us where he is, and we have no idea.

  • My boss is about 50-50 on letting us know her schedule. I send the team I supervise an email almost every day with my whereabouts so they know where/when/how to reach me. Especially since we've been plague central the past few weeks and holiday leave was happening in the middle of that, it seems courteous.
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  • imagecep1976:
    imagecheekywife:

     and you know if you were the one who forgot to mention something like that, he would have had your @ss

    sorry you have to deal with that today! 

    I'm surprised we got no notice at all, it kind of makes him look terrible when people stop by looking for him and ask us where he is, and we have no idea.

    yep. this was the other thing about her not keeping us informed. oh how i don't miss her one. little. bit.  

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  • My boss is very hesitant to share his plans - I think because he thinks if we know he'll be out no one will work or show up?  Not much trust there.  He keeps a paper calendar, so his assistant usually sneaks into his office when he's out to check in on him.  If she's not around, I've been known to do the same (since he keeps the calendar book open to the current day right next to his computer).  But he only rarely will actively tell anyone his plans in advance, usually in the context of a conversation about setting up a meeting (I'm going to be out Wednesday, so it has to happen by Tuesday night).  It's kind of crazy.
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  • No.  But then again my boss is anasshole.  It's always a pleasant surprise when he randomly goes on vacation without notice. 
  • That is so unprofessional.  I always e-mail my team if I am going to be late or out.

    We also have a team calendar and we put the leave on that as well.  It just helps things run smoother!

  • yes, my boss does let us know if he is going to be late/out/leave early etc... usually not any detail but it is nice to know.
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  • We have access to everyone's calendars, so we can always check. But there have been times where my supervisor has decided at the last minute that she is taking off the next day/going to a dr appt whatever, and I don't know about it until the day of. It's a little frustrating when there are things she needs to sign off on or whatever and I thought I'd be able to get it done but can't because I didn't know she'd be out.
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  • I find that odd as well. However, at my current company my bosses don't tell us when they will be out of the office unless it sort of comes up in conversation like "oh, I won't be here that week so we have to schedule the meeting the next week". There have been times where I had no idea that my boss was going to be out for a week on vacation. I've always found it sort of odd but I guess it's the culture here. It almost seems to me like they don't tell us because they don't want us to think it's a time to slack off.

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  • We have calendar access.  I've never had a boss not share that information, but I have worked with folks who are intensely private about their schedule.  Perhaps he falls into that category.
  • Hell to the no.  My boss comes in late every single day (our office opens at 10, and she usually doesn't come in until after noon).  It's just what she does, and I wish she would be here when the office is open if she's going to expect us to be here when it's open.  She does do a lot of work at home though.
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  • My coworker, boss, and myself are a team- our schedules really affect the other 2 team members, so we have all vacation days and leave time marked off. Even if something comes up at the last minute, we always know whether to expect that person in or not, and around what time.

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