Trouble in Paradise
Aimee8314
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Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
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Thank you.
Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.
I'm not sure how to feel about this
A former classmate of mine posted a link to an article about a guy that we went to school with who just got life in prison for strangling his wife and burying her on their property.
Disturbing enough - but I dated him. For over a year. I'm not surprised (he had anger issues) but I feel unsettled about it. I'm old - so it's not like it was yesterday or something, but still. His wife was the girl he cheated on me with - and they were married at 19. I feel like I dodged a bullet, I guess.
Re: I'm not sure how to feel about this
Currently Reading: Don Quixote by Miguel De Cervantes
How quickly did your H come up with that response? I'm suspicious that he's put some thought into where to bury your body. I'd sleep with one eye opened tonight!
Currently Reading: Don Quixote by Miguel De Cervantes
Mine is the exact same way. I never worry about him cheating or anything because the man is LITERALLY the worst liar I've ever met. He can't even lie to his aunt say we're busy (even with some vague, nondescript obligation) when she invites us to a party. It drives me nuts... but it also works to my benefit.
Currently Reading: Don Quixote by Miguel De Cervantes
Love it. Mine bites his lip. So you can hear it (over the phone) or see it when he's in front of you. So either I lucked out and he's an honest guy or he's smart enough to know he can't ever hack it as a bad guy. Win for me!
Right? I was tempted on the "what if you got married at 18/19/20 post" but felt it was a little too dramatic and AW-y for a lurker. I'm so glad my judgement/taste improved! If I had married the one after him - I would have been divorced and living in a trailer park.
Which still would have been an improvement...
This is an excellent life lesson, for all of us, really.