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Online Dating related: WWYD?

So, I'm on eHarmony and a few weeks ago, I was contacted by A. He's cute, we have stuff in common, etc. We did the back and forth for a little while...(steps 1 and 2) and then it got to step 3 and I never heard back from him. Of course, didn't take it too personaly and moved along. Since then, he's looked at my profiled like 4 times...every few days. WTF dude?

So, do I message him and say "hi" or just drop it? I've done this to guys...but I haven't continued to look at their profile if I'm not interested. I'm simply just not interested at that point. What do you think?

The Nestie formally known as....

Re: Online Dating related: WWYD?

  • When I used to do that to people it was because I was interested but couldn't decide if they were cute based off the pics that they had/ I was on the fence about them. Not multiple times a day, but still. 


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  • imageNinjaPaants:

    When I used to do that to people it was because I was interested but couldn't decide if they were cute based off the pics that they had/ I was on the fence about them. Not multiple times a day, but still. 


    That's kind of my thought...but do I be bold and just say "so...hi" or wait for him? I mean, I figure I have nothing to lose. But I doin't want to be stalker-y.

    The Nestie formally known as....
  • imageRedRedWine2:
    imageNinjaPaants:

    When I used to do that to people it was because I was interested but couldn't decide if they were cute based off the pics that they had/ I was on the fence about them. Not multiple times a day, but still. 


    That's kind of my thought...but do I be bold and just say "so...hi" or wait for him? I mean, I figure I have nothing to lose. But I doin't want to be stalker-y.

    I'd maybe just write a quick message. Sometimes I would get through the first two steps quickly because it doesn't take much effort but when it came to sitting down and constructing an e-mail, it took me a little longer. Just be prepared that he might not write back.  

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  • I've never used E-harmony but someone mentioned the steps on here before so I sort of know how it works... but is there a reason he needs to message you first? Why is it weird for you to send the first message?
  • imageDakotaDangerDog:
    I've never used E-harmony but someone mentioned the steps on here before so I sort of know how it works... but is there a reason he needs to message you first? Why is it weird for you to send the first message?

    WEll, it's sort of a back and forth thing...and the ball landed in his court. I never heard back from him when I asked him questions, so I assumed he moved on. I just wonder why he keeps looking if he's not interested.

    The Nestie formally known as....
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