BNOTB
Dear Community,

Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.

If you have questions about this, please email help@theknot.com.

Thank you.

Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.

"Life coaching"- Help me understand

I just noticed on my FB that my aunt has decided to become a "life coach" (she has been at a stay at home mom for 15 years now, not that there is anything WRONG with that, I just think she could probably use some coaching of her own, since her kids are in high school and she just sits and drinks coffee all day and updates her status every 20 minutes)....

I don't understand life coaching. My stepMIL is a "life coach" as well and it just seems to me a code for "I want to sound cool but I don't really do anything but give my friends advice". She tries to talk with me about how "similar" our careers are and I'm like, "um, no"

It's particularly irritating to me because I spent YEARS and $$ on professional education and licensing for counseling/psychotherapy and these women take a few unregulated online courses and consider themselves similar professionals.

I guess the post of this email should have been another "I don't understand"..... insert "life coaching"

Warning No formatter is installed for the format bbhtml

Re: "Life coaching"- Help me understand

  • I would be irritated to if an non-educated person is saying that you have similar jobs. 
  • In my mind, this is like being a Big Brother/Big Sister, but to an adult.

    In otherwords, and unqualified person who hangs out with someone who doesn't have means to get actual help.

    b34ad4a8
  • Yeah, it's kind of like an adult guidance counselor, but barely qualified. 

    I never really got it either, but have heard of a couple of "life coaches". 

    I am glad I have a good mom, she's my life coach. 

    image
    imageimage
  • imagegregslittlewifey:

    In my mind, this is like being a Big Brother/Big Sister, but to an adult.

    In otherwords, and unqualified person who hangs out with someone who doesn't have means to get actual help.

    And gets paid for it. Big Brothers/Big Sisters are volunteers.

  • Life Coach = I want everyone to now pay me for being an overly-opinionated busybody.
    BNOTB March Siggy Challenge My favorite spring pic/thing The scent and sight of lilacs in the sun PhotobucketDaisypath Anniversary tickers LilySlim Weight loss tickers
  • Yeah...I'd be mad. That's kind of like someone saying they are a lawyer because they saw a few episodes of Judge Judy.
    Lilypie Countdown to Adoption tickers
  • imageSLouWE:
    Life Coach = I want everyone to now pay me for being an overly-opinionated busybody.

    /dead

    Thank you guys, I thought I was just being judgmental and bratty..... lol

    Warning No formatter is installed for the format bbhtml
  • imageOtterama:
    Yeah...I'd be mad. That's kind of like someone saying they are a lawyer because they saw a few episodes of Judge Judy.

    Yes 

    image
  • There's someone on my FB who's doing this and I don't get it either.

    She does everything from helping people shop for a new wardrobe to helping them find a career they're interested in. 

    I wouldn't say she's "counseling" though.  To me, it just sounds like a glorified "friend" who is paid. 

    image
  • Life coaching is someone who doesn't want a real job giving advice to someone that has no confidence in their own decision making capabilities. 

    What a joke.

    Warning No formatter is installed for the format bbhtml
  • I have a visual of said life coach following their client around and blowing a whistle at them every time they do something bad.
  • imageMarriedName:

    Life coaching is someone who doesn't want a real job giving advice to someone that has no confidence in their own decision making capabilities. 

    What a joke.

    /rises from the dead just to die again
    Warning No formatter is installed for the format bbhtml
  • imageSLouWE:
    Life Coach = I want everyone to now pay me for being an overly-opinionated busybody.

    haha yeah! An I agree you should be pissed that she was comparing her bs job to your career


    my read shelf:
    Jennifer *th!nks3xy*'s book recommendations, liked quotes, book clubs, book trivia, book lists (read shelf)
  • I should definitely be a life coach.
Sign In or Register to comment.
Choose Another Board
Search Boards