Starting Over
Our Angel baby, lost at 6w6d on 6/10/08
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Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
If you have questions about this, please email help@theknot.com.
Thank you.
Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.
Planning on telling H tomorrow
The girls will be sleeping over my mom's tomorrow night, so it's the perfect opportunity to sit him down and tell him. I plan on starting out by telling him that I've seen a counselor and through talking with her, I came to the conclusion that I no longer want to be in this marriage and that I want a divorce.
I've gone over this in my head many times, but I'm scared. My heart is racing as I am typing this. I know it has to be done and I hope I don't chicken out. I know that once it's out I will be relieved and the pressure will be off, but then we'll have a lot to go over and do.
Our Angel baby, lost at 6w6d on 6/10/08
Re: Planning on telling H tomorrow
I know EXACTLY how you are feeling right now. The anticipation does totally suck, as a PP said. I was sweating and shaking and crying and a complete blubbering mess.
But you will feel some sense of relief when the conversation is over. It won't immediately get easier, but you will no longer have the stress of knowing you're about to drop a bomb -- and that helps a LOT.
Good luck!
You got this.