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So I have a big baby. At 34w2d, my child weighs in at 6.5lb. Am I doing something wrong here? I am not diabetic and big babies do not run on either side of our family. I don't get to talk to my doctor until 1/16
Re: U/S today
Yes exactly and a pound in a newborn is a huge amount to be off by.
You're not doing anything wrong! Some babies are big and some babies are little. What's the worst case, the U/S is right and you deliver a 10 lb baby? (and they have at least a lb margin of error).
Besides, according to the handy preemie growth chart in by desk drawer, if she was 6.5 and born today, she'd still be under the 95th percentile. Totally normal
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THANK YOU!!! This makes me feel much better.
The ultrasound tech asked me if I was "diabetic because I have a huge baby". I was by myself today and I almost started crying
I started thinking that maybe I eat too much or something. I've gained 32lbs which I feel like is a lot too, but I'm crazy swollen, so OB says a lot of that is probably water retention. I was just feeling really bad about myself after my appt this morning.
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That is so horrific of that US tech. The last u/s I had told me that it can vary by a certain percentage either way (higher or lower)-- can't remember the percentage now. I remember at one u/s (maybe my 36 week one, it was estimated that she was about 6lbs)... she was 6lb15oz almost 5 weeks later at birth.
You are doing a great job... and you already have a scheduled c/s, right? If so, I don't see a reason to worry about her size!
I gained 55 and didn't have a huge baby
What an awful, awful thing for the tech to say! As everyone above said, you have done nothing wrong! And I too would take what they said with a grain of salt. They can be off, but also some people just have big babies. You have a healthy daughter who is growing in your belly and that should be all that matters! You are almost there Sarah
seriously, for there to be an "average" that means some babies are big and some are small. how rude of the tech to comment like that!!! I would say something actually.
I feel your pain on the opposite though because at every growth scan people kept saying how tiny A was. She was 10 days late and 7lbs so yes, small, and right where they predicted she'd be. But not like off the charts small!
One of my friends almost just went right to a c-section b/c they were telling her her baby was way too big, etc. She was induced at 40 weeks b/c of low fluid and while he had a larger than average head he was 7lbs 12oz which really isn't that big! They were saying over 9lbs.
So yeah, these things can be wrong, though good techs usually get it pretty close and really you shouldn't let it get to you!
I was a 9lb baby and my sister was only 5lbs. FWIW, my Mom said she'd take a big baby over a small baby any day. I had zero issues where my sister had a few and Mom was so timid with her whereas she felt like I was half grown and so sturdy.
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