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  • I am on day 4 of a headache that won't go away. Sad

    I am looking forward to a 3 day weekend though! 

  • My paternal grandma and I have always had a rocky relationship, but we've always been civil with each other---gotten together for holidays, called on birthdays, etc.  Very long story short, she posted some really stupid things on FB when G was born so I deleted her from my FB friends.  

    Fast forward to a week or so ago and she posted something else that I was not okay with (related to G), and called her out for it.  After that incident, she completely blocked me on FB.  I hate to admit it, but it bothers me that she did....and it bothers me that she's never met G.  She lives 5 minutes from the hospital where I delivered and we didn't get so much as a phone call, much less a visit from her (instead she went on FB and posted inappropriate things)....she hasn't emailed, called, messaged, etc asking to meet him or asking how he's doing.  It just makes me sad that she has no desire to meet her only great grandchild and it makes me sad that he doesn't have a relationship with his great grandma...I don't want him to ever feel like someone doesn't care about him/want to know him.  I know it's probably for the best because she just causes drama and is a very selfish person, but I'm struggling.... 


    AW:  I'm off today for G's 6 month check up and we're out of school Monday, so Hello 4 day weekend! Smile
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  • What sort of inappropriate things would you possibly have to post on Facebook about a baby you've never even met? This boggles the mind. 
  • I had a frapp and lemon loaf from Starbucks for breakfast. Oops. There was a 4ish year old kid in target on a kid leash. I judged. Hard. Get some parenting skills. It's Friday the 13th. I woke up hoping for some good luck.
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  • I'm a little bit hungover and kind of pissed at myself about it. Duh, okla, if you drink a bottle of wine and don't eat dinner, you may get a little drunk and thus hungover.

    Because of said slight hangover, I need lots of water to drink today. Well, I just got the last of it from the 5 gallon Ozarka thing. The guy who usually changes it moved to another building. The other guy who works here is off today. I'm going to have to do this myself. I predict I spill something.

    I have to work ALL WEEKEND at the PT job. Tonight, 8 hours tomorrow, 8 hours Sunday, and 8 hours Monday (I'm off at real job). KILL ME NOW.

    GAH.

    ETA: OH, and I have cramps. The advil I took for them seems to be focusing on the hangover symptoms and not the cramps. FML.

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  • FFFC: I worked my a$$ off M-W to get 615 people paid correctly and on time without much help (I am currently the only full-time employee in my dept-we used to have 4 FT employees) so yesterday I didn't do much. Oh, and we had to do a ton of adjustments because the last week we worked before break was estimated and we had to add in all the adjustments for those who did work or take leave the estimated week. 

    AW #1: Out of those 615 people so far only 1 person was not paid correctly and that was because his boss did not turn in all of his work time while we were off for holiday break. I feel really good about this and know it speaks alot considering last year when my boss did this payroll she had it all kids of screwed up and was still correcting peoples pay in Feb.

     AW#2: I bougt an 09 GMC Acadia while I was off work for break and I got to do all of the financing with just my name on it-no co-signer or anything and I got a great intrested rate. Plus I LOVE my vehicle and it gets good gas mileage.

     

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  • Our campus is closed on Monday, but I'm one of the few that has to work. I have to oversee/attend 3 big/high stress events that day and it will be a 15 hour day. I am pretty bitter about it. So whenever I hear someone at work talking about how excited they are for a 3-day weekend, I want to punch them in the face.

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  • imageOULaw03:

    Our campus is closed on Monday, but I'm one of the few that has to work. I have to oversee/attend 3 big/high stress events that day and it will be a 15 hour day. I am pretty bitter about it. So whenever I hear someone at work talking about how excited they are for a 3-day weekend, I want to punch them in the face.

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  • imageoklagirl:
    imageOULaw03:

    Our campus is closed on Monday, but I'm one of the few that has to work. I have to oversee/attend 3 big/high stress events that day and it will be a 15 hour day. I am pretty bitter about it. So whenever I hear someone at work talking about how excited they are for a 3-day weekend, I want to punch them in the face.

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    Sorry! 

  • AW: we are flying home tomorrow for the three day weekend so we can have a baby shower with friends and family and take maternity pics!! I am beyond excited!! Oklahoma here we come!!!
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  • AW: I got a promotion and title change today. I am so glad my new boss recognizes how vital I am to our department.
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  • imagetbvenable:
    AW: I got a promotion and title change today. I am so glad my new boss recognizes how vital I am to our department.

    Woot! Congrats! We should do a celebratory lunch soon. :)

    I've got two trips in the works - NYC in July and back to Great Wolf Lodge in February. And I might be going to DisneyWorld in August, then Hawaii in December. It seems like I travel every other year, and this year will be a big travel year. Sweet.

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  • Sh!t stirers at work.  SOOO over them. 

  • imagetbvenable:
    AW: I got a promotion and title change today. I am so glad my new boss recognizes how vital I am to our department.

    Cograts! 

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    Sh!t stirers at work.  SOOO over them. 

    Just remember, vacation very soon! 

  • imageOSUWifey09:

    imagetbvenable:
    AW: I got a promotion and title change today. I am so glad my new boss recognizes how vital I am to our department.

    Woot! Congrats! We should do a celebratory lunch soon. :)

    I've got two trips in the works - NYC in July and back to Great Wolf Lodge in February. And I might be going to DisneyWorld in August, then Hawaii in December. It seems like I travel every other year, and this year will be a big travel year. Sweet.

    A celebratory lunch sounds great! I will e-mail you!

    Your trips sound like fun!

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  • imageWendyToo:

    imagetbvenable:
    AW: I got a promotion and title change today. I am so glad my new boss recognizes how vital I am to our department.

    Cograts! 

    Thank You!

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  • imageWendyToo:
    What sort of inappropriate things would you possibly have to post on Facebook about a baby you've never even met? This boggles the mind. 

    She didn't necessarily post inappropriate things about him---just things I'm not okay with.  She kept tagging my bio father in pics of G.  NOT OKAY.  Previously I'd privately messaged her asking her to please untag bio father in pictures of me...when she started tagging him in pictures of G and making posts about how bio father is now a grandpa and referring to G as his grandson I lost my sh!t.  I haven't had contact with him in 20 years so let's not put on an act for FB friends and pretend things are puppies and rainbows.  G has a grandpa, and it sure as hell isn't my bio dad. /vent
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  • imagedrillerswife:
    imageWendyToo:
    What sort of inappropriate things would you possibly have to post on Facebook about a baby you've never even met? This boggles the mind. 

    She didn't necessarily post inappropriate things about him---just things I'm not okay with.  She kept tagging my bio father in pics of G.  NOT OKAY.  Previously I'd privately messaged her asking her to please untag bio father in pictures of me...when she started tagging him in pictures of G and making posts about how bio father is now a grandpa and referring to G as his grandson I lost my sh!t.  I haven't had contact with him in 20 years so let's not put on an act for FB friends and pretend things are puppies and rainbows.  G has a grandpa, and it sure as hell isn't my bio dad. /vent

     

    I would have flipped the $hit too. I understand she is your grandma but that's so not cool. I'm sure her friends/family know that you and your dad do not have a relationship so she is making an a$$ out of herself acting like your all 1 big happy family. She would do be blocked from my FB.  

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  • imagetbvenable:
    imagedrillerswife:
    imageWendyToo:
    What sort of inappropriate things would you possibly have to post on Facebook about a baby you've never even met? This boggles the mind. 

    She didn't necessarily post inappropriate things about him---just things I'm not okay with.  She kept tagging my bio father in pics of G.  NOT OKAY.  Previously I'd privately messaged her asking her to please untag bio father in pictures of me...when she started tagging him in pictures of G and making posts about how bio father is now a grandpa and referring to G as his grandson I lost my sh!t.  I haven't had contact with him in 20 years so let's not put on an act for FB friends and pretend things are puppies and rainbows.  G has a grandpa, and it sure as hell isn't my bio dad. /vent

     

    I would have flipped the $hit too. I understand she is your grandma but that's so not cool. I'm sure her friends/family know that you and your dad do not have a relationship so she is making an a$$ out of herself acting like your all 1 big happy family. She would do be blocked from my FB.  

     Id flip out too. So sorry you have to deal with that BS.  Blocked for sure. 

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  • imagetbvenable:
    AW: I got a promotion and title change today. I am so glad my new boss recognizes how vital I am to our department.

    Awesome! The being recognized part is almost better than the more money part!

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  • imageWendyToo:
    imageoklagirl:
    imageOULaw03:

    Our campus is closed on Monday, but I'm one of the few that has to work. I have to oversee/attend 3 big/high stress events that day and it will be a 15 hour day. I am pretty bitter about it. So whenever I hear someone at work talking about how excited they are for a 3-day weekend, I want to punch them in the face.

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    Sorry! 

     

    Oh my goodness, Wendy Too! Not you - so sorry if it came off that way. It's the turds I work with who practically cartwheeled down the hall on Friday afternoon that I'm bitter about, lol! I hope you enjoyed your time off! 

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  • imageOULaw03:
    imageWendyToo:
    imageoklagirl:
    imageOULaw03:

    Our campus is closed on Monday, but I'm one of the few that has to work. I have to oversee/attend 3 big/high stress events that day and it will be a 15 hour day. I am pretty bitter about it. So whenever I hear someone at work talking about how excited they are for a 3-day weekend, I want to punch them in the face.

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    Sorry! 

     

    Oh my goodness, Wendy Too! Not you - so sorry if it came off that way. It's the turds I work with who practically cartwheeled down the hall on Friday afternoon that I'm bitter about, lol! I hope you enjoyed your time off! 

    I knew you weren't actually talking about me, so I was mostly joking. I took Connor to daycare and then slept in until like 10 and went to a movie. Now I'm going to pick him up and go to a park or something since its so nice out.  

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