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Haha- Advice column question
Dear E. Jean: I?ve been secretly seeing someone for the past four years. We?re both married (he?s supposedly happy in his marriage; I?m definitely not). The sex is amazing. Recently, however, I?ve had the feeling that he may be seeing someone else?besides me and his wife. I hadn?t heard from him, so I called several times and hung up after one ring (our signal). He never got back to me.
I thought he might be seeing a mystery woman. I was jealous and hurt, and wrote him a letter asking him why I hadn?t heard from him. He called me?furious!?and said how dare I send a letter to his home! Then he said it was over and hung up on me. I can?t believe he just ended it like that. I want to try to talk to him but I don?t know how. ?Sad and Confused
Sad, you delectable simpleton: When contacting a secret lover, today?s entrepreneur employs the prepaid throwaway cell phone and Gmail, or simply changes her Facebook relationship status to ?I hope it?s still complicated, or I?m going to tell your wife!?
Apropos: When tipping off a wife?as you cruelly intended with that letter; don?t deny it!?paper and pen have fallen into complete disuse (along with the ?one ring? marketing device). Today?s enterprising rival simply starts a quick Gchat with the poor wife and sends her a link to a YouPorn video of her husband trying a new management plan with another woman?s panties.
But come on. You?ve been running a shoddy business, Miss Sad. As CEO of your marriage, you?re disreputable and unkind. Have the decency to either tell your husband the truth and ask his forgiveness, or close down the wedlock concession.
Re: Haha- Advice column question
....what?
How can you even get through writing that question without realizing how BSC you are?