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My wine drinkin' buddy is pg

I'm stoked for her!  She really wants to be a mom, and she's going to make a great one.  I'm going to miss drinking wine with her, though.  

However, I told her just last weekend (as we were drinking wine; she found out today she's pg and a month along; WHOOPS) when she told me that they were "not NOT trying" that that MEANS THEY ARE TRYING!  Her and another friend argued with me that there is a difference between not preventing and trying, and I said, I don't think there is, because either way your end up preggo.

Guess I won that argument.   

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Re: My wine drinkin' buddy is pg

  • BTW, not that anyone would, but no fb messages about this.  Dan and I are among the "need to know" group and they're not telling everyone yet.
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  • imageSLouWE:

     Her and another friend argued with me that there is a difference between not preventing and trying, and I said, I don't think there is, because either way your end up preggo.  

    Agreed.  Team SLouWE.

     

    Congrats to your friend!  And now more wine for you. :)Drinks 

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  • Congrats to your friend!!
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  • imageSLouWE:

    I'm stoked for her!  She really wants to be a mom, and she's going to make a great one.  I'm going to miss drinking wine with her, though.  

    However, I told her just last weekend (as we were drinking wine; she found out today she's pg and a month along; WHOOPS) when she told me that they were "not NOT trying" that that MEANS THEY ARE TRYING!  Her and another friend argued with me that there is a difference between not preventing and trying, and I said, I don't think there is, because either way your end up preggo.

    Guess I won that argument.   

    I fully agree with you there!  If you really dont want to be preggo, you will effectively make sure you arent.

    My bff/wdb is currently trying.  I thought she was a never ever so while I'm sad to lose here there, I will be very happy for her because I know she'll make a great mom!  Even some never evers eventually change their mind...  lol

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    imageSLouWE:

    I'm stoked for her!  She really wants to be a mom, and she's going to make a great one.  I'm going to miss drinking wine with her, though.  

    However, I told her just last weekend (as we were drinking wine; she found out today she's pg and a month along; WHOOPS) when she told me that they were "not NOT trying" that that MEANS THEY ARE TRYING!  Her and another friend argued with me that there is a difference between not preventing and trying, and I said, I don't think there is, because either way your end up preggo.

    Guess I won that argument.   

    I fully agree with you there!  If you really dont want to be preggo, you will effectively make sure you arent.

    My bff/wdb is currently trying.  I thought she was a never ever so while I'm sad to lose here there, I will be very happy for her because I know she'll make a great mom!  Even some never evers eventually change their mind...  lol

    Tragically, they do. I'm lucky enough that I have a few that I know for certain won't ever change their minds on me, but we're all in the same boat, surrounded by babies! 

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  • I hate when people use the NOT trying bit. If you aren't preventing it... you are trying. *rolls eyes*
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  • I am sorry for your loss.
  • i can kind of understand the not not trying thing.

    they want a baby andare taking measures to have one but if unprotected sex doesn't conceive a child they aren't heart broken.

    and i'm sorry for your wine buddy loss. Drinks Cheers to finding another! 

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