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Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
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Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.
Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
If you have questions about this, please email help@theknot.com.
Thank you.
Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.
I can't breathe...
in BNOTB
Today is moving day and my life is just sitting in boxes, waiting for my mom to get here... I feel like I'm having a panic attack and my chest is tight. 
I've accepted that he's done and it's totally over so when will this start sucking less?! I want out of the house and off the lease and to just forget this whole part of my life. Ergh. Sorry this is so whiny, I feel pitiful right now. Tell me it'll be okay?
I've accepted that he's done and it's totally over so when will this start sucking less?! I want out of the house and off the lease and to just forget this whole part of my life. Ergh. Sorry this is so whiny, I feel pitiful right now. Tell me it'll be okay?
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Re: I can't breathe...
big hugs! Vent and whine as much as you want. It will start to suck less, especially when you can focus on moving forward and all that life has to offer!
Good luck!
Breathe in and out. You made this decision. Have faith in yourself. You can do this.
You got this.
::hugs::
Thanks everyone... And this is sort of where I'm at now. I went through the depression part... now I think I'm mostly onto the anger, but I still have a meltdown some evenings. I don't have many friends in the area, because we just moved back here (his hometown) six months ago, but I'm going to join the climbing gym here this week and look into volunteering at the animal shelter. I figure if I get out and get busy and make some friends I'll start being able to move on. I've accepted that it's over, and I'm all the way out of the house, now I just want to get the lease and any bills we have left taken care of and focus on me. Again, thanks to all you girls who chimed in. I know most people have been in crappy relationships, and gone through awful break ups, but it's hard to feel like you aren't the only person in the world who's hurt this bad, in moments like these.