I am going to break up with my BF tonight. It is going to be really hard cause we have been together for 8 months and things have been great, but i did some soul searching and I am just not ready. I just want to be on my own with my DD.
I was feeling off for about a week and then it just kinda hit me, I am simply not ready to be on the marriage track right now. It is not fair to him or my daughter to stay in a relationship I am checked out of.
I am not even going to think about dating for at least another year.*
Anyway, thanks for listening.
*If by some miracle I meet and amazing man I will take it super slow, but he would have to be pretty close to perfect for me.
Re: Ending my relationship
It takes a ton of strength and courage to break off a relationship because you just know it's not right for you right now. So many women (and men) stay just because there is no big "red flag". Good for you for looking deep into yourself to figure out what you need and not stringing him along.