Maybe some of you Etsy sellers can offer a different view.
Here's the situation- Back in November I ordered a cover for my Nook. Received the cover OK quickly, but there was miscommunication and the cover was too big. After contacting the seller I paid to return ship the cover back to her with the knowledge that as soon as she could she would be mailing a new one out. I mailed back the cover the beginning of December, and delivery confirmation showed it was received the 13th. I waited through the New Year and she replied on Jan 3rd that there was a mix-up with her packages but she had scheduled a pick-up. So I'm left to assume it went out the next day or shortly there after.
I contacted her this weekend asking about when she shipped the package. It is now Tuesday and I have not heard back from her nor have I received the package. A part of me really wants to get angry at her and say so. But I also realize that it isn't her fault that the first cover wasn't right, and she had to make a 2nd when really she didn't HAVE to. I'm just not sure how I can continue to be patient when I've basically been waiting for this cover for 2 months.
Sorry about the long rant.
Re: Trying to not get angry.
It all depends on who provided the original measurements.
It sounds like it was you that provided the wrong information. If that's correct I would be as patient as possible since she really didn't have to make you another cover. She now has to resell the one you picked out in that particular fabric for the particular item you gave measurements for or scrap it all together if it doesn't fit any of them. That's really nice of her.
I definitely don't think you're in the wrong to contact her about it again, but I wouldn't be mean about it.
Now, if she got the measurements wrong in the first place, that's a whole different story and I'd be giving some negative feedback.