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Thank you.
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Poll
I know this has been asked before, but H and I are trying to settle something.
Do you wish the number were more or less?
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Re: Poll
I wish the nest had a like/dislike button. It would make it easier! Ha!
67/200
I don't even understand how a woman can be bad at sex.
67/200
I wish I could say this. I had high hopes for when we got married and H only wants once a week, and I would love every day. Sometimes we'll do twice a week, but not very often. I expected the "newlywed" thing too, but it's been a disappointment.
I don't quite know how to explain it... so just trust me on this one.
This made me think of Andy D.i.ck in Old School.
I DON'T UNDERSTAND.
I mean like, at least half sex positions require little to no effort from the female side. Just find one that feels good and go with it.
I simply cannot fathom only having sex once or twice a month.
67/200
I'll put my business out there. Even when things are good and we're in the same place at the same time, we rarely go more than once a week, and nothing happens when I'm on my cycle, so we average about 3 times a month. It's just not as important to us as non-sexual touch.
Ditto to the bold. Especially the last sentence.
Brandie, I'll disagree with Mary a little and say that all positions should require effort from women. I learned all my moves from Skinemax when I was a teenager. I didn't have sex until after HS, but now I love it. I was really self conscious with my first partner because he was 26, I was 18/19, and he was European (lol). But it's about relaxing. Have you thought about seeing a sex therapist?
H and I are in the 4x a week camp when he's home. 3 times a weekend and one random time during the week though we don't really see each other. Sex is very important to me/us, but neither of us wants it more/less than we get it.
Mary, it isn't the mechanics of sex that stumps me. It's the more the mental side of it. Somehing isnt clicking somewhere. Stan, I have thought about seeing a therapist actually. I have to find the time for it though.
I'm so in your boat here. It's just not the way it should be. I feel ya.