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my hubby loves bj's but i don't
i have been married almost 2yrs now and my husband loves blow jobs but i hate it. can anyone give me some advice that will make me enjoy it. Im willing to try almost anything. i just get the thought of him cumming in my mouth that turns me off.
Re: my hubby loves bj's but i don't
Do you not like it at all or just the cumming in your mouth part? If it's the *** itself, tell him to warn you, but that you'll suck it right up till then. If it's the whole shebang, that you don't enjoy, don't do it. There's no rule or law that says a wife must give bj's. And personally I think it's bad practice to do anything sexual that both of you don't enjoy.
If you want to do it though. I would start with baby steps. I would do it as a precursor to actual intercourse, like early on, way before he's ready to blow his load. Make sure he's showered and clean though. You might try some sort of flavored product.
it is just the cumming in my mouth part i dont like.. i will try something flavored thanks for your advice..
All I can think of is that episode from Sex And The City where Samantha's bf's spunk was funky.:)
She had him drink pineapple juice before they had sex.:) Allegedly it worked.:)
Ditto the "just don't have him ejaculate in your mouth" crowd. BJs need not end with swallowing.
This... also... use it as foreplay, not as the whole shebang (Ha!). There's no need to not have intercourse after a little playtime...
There are several recipes out there that he can eat/drink that are supposed to make the *** taste better. I am not sure if they work or not but that is also something to try. I also do not like anything about bj's it just grosses me out... I mean he pees out of it. I will occasionally do it in the shower when I knot is is super clean.
If you really want to do it try as others have said. Start with small steps, let him warn you before he finishes.
Also, try replacing the negative thoughts with positive. As you do it think of how good you are making him feel, think of how much he is enjoying it and how turned on he gets by what you are doing and maybe it will help you feel more turned on by it.