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I had a dream that J broke up with me
It was such a vivid dream. We were on a train and out of nowhere J announces that we're done. At first I was calm about it, asking him to go to counseling, asking him if I took things for granted and what I could do to fix our issues. It became more and more clear that he was not interested in making an effort to fix things and we were finished. So, I asked him where he was going to go. My in-reality-outdoor-activity-hating husband said 'The first thing I'm going to do when I'm free is go camping.' That's when I flipped the flip out and beat the flip out of him. I bit him, I hit him, I tried to tear off his ears with my bare hands- it was a brutal attack. I was just so pi$$ed off that I'd begged him a million times to go to outdoor activities with me and he refused and now he was dumping me.
I told J about it in the morning and he was actually a little shaken by the whole thing- hopefully this is fair warning to him. 
Seriously, I once heard someone say 'If my husband ever leaves, I'm going with him'- I woke up feeling like that- like I just couldn't imagine losing J. What a scary and wild dream.
Re: I had a dream that J broke up with me
The vivid emotional relationship dreams are the worst. It's hard not to let them mess with your head.
I'd definitely go with if he tried to leave.
Ooh, that is the worst!
Hope it was a one time dream and doesn't happen again!
I HATE these dreams. When I first started dating J I had a lot of guilt. I would dream about cheating on him or him leaving me (or both). They really, really messed with my head.
Maybe this means he will camp more in the future?
If I were him, I'd take it as a warning and go more.