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technicalities of the div. process - feedback pretty please

I found out yesterday that even though he was served last summer, I found out yesterday that STBXH has not filed any of the paperwork for the divorce. No discovery, no financial affidavit. I did all that months ago.
Our hearing is Feb. 6th - in 3 weeks! Lawyer says it won't delay anything but I'm still nervous, cause I have to fly across the country for this hearing and I don't want to do it twice, or do it for no reason.
Did anyone else's spuse drag their feet? What ended up happening?

Vacation

Re: technicalities of the div. process - feedback pretty please

  • My XH wouldn't sign because he knew I was going for more child support to cover daycare costs. He decided he was just going to play hard ball. We ended up having the child support hearing before our divorce proceeding. My atty had him served with divorce papers when he showed up. Then after the judge awarded me more money he couldn't divorce me fast enough, plus he was in a hurry since he knocked up his gf and due any time.
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  • My XH dragged his feet too.  He made my atty write up and file everything (so I had to eat the fees) and it cost me a lot money.  He dug his nails in so deep that his atty said she had never seen someone refuse to accept that his marriage was over so far into the process.  The day of the divorce hearing, he asked my mother, IN THE COURTHOUSE, if she would ask me to reconsider--WTF?!?!
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  • wtf indeed, what happened then? You laughed in his face and the court went on like nothing happened??
    Vacation
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