TIP on second trimester

nmeirose · January 2012

http://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/62464931/ShowThread.aspx#62464931

Lurker here,

Ladies, this poster needs serious TIP help. She was betrayed by her husb while 18 weeks pregnant. I have been there, done that with my exh, and wish that I had had people telling me it was ok to leave back then! So responses that tell her he is a sh*t are wanted!

Thanks everyone.

XSailoretteX · January 2012

I'm going to be the assshole who asks why she's having a kid with a guy who's phone she has to check in the first place.

ReturnOfKuus · January 2012

Those responses from people who got counseling to repair trust in a cheating boyfriend are killing me.

XSailoretteX · January 2012

ReturnOfKuus:
Those responses from people who got counseling to repair trust in a cheating boyfriend are killing me.

They remind me of my parents' old next door neighbor. Guy screwed everything that couldn't run away fast enough, got caught, went to counseling. A couple of years later, guy got caught at it again, responded with "oh, well that just means I have to go back to counseling, right?"

TarponMonoxide · January 2012

No decent happily married man stays out until 5 am. At that hour, you're out getting funky and that's where it's at.

She needed to dump him the second she found out about this "friend."

nmeirose · January 2012

I think I have to step away from the thread- there are just too many people saying to work it out. It makes me sick. Call me crazy, but I just don't think a pregnant woman should have to spend her energy and emotion trying to work it out with her cheating h.

magsugar13 · January 2012

but it was only one kiss...bwahhh

ReturnOfKuus · January 2012

I'm getting a little annoyed at your focus on the pregnancy as the deciding factor. Like, women who aren't all knocked up can put up with this sh*t, but once sperm meets egg, you get nothing but the best. Blech.

FroggyFarts · January 2012

I was just coming over to talk about this one. I haven't read all of the replies yet but I'm stunned that she believes the husband who was out all night only kissed a co-worker.

ReturnOfKuus · January 2012

An excerpt from my favorite response:

"I'm not going to read all of the responses so sorry if this is repetitive...but I think that although it sucks right now, eventually you will be able to look back at this pregnancy and remember it as a positive time in your relationship."

*wheeze*

nmeirose · January 2012

ReturnOfKuus:

An excerpt from my favorite response:

"I'm not going to read all of the responses so sorry if this is repetitive...but I think that although it sucks right now, eventually you will be able to look back at this pregnancy and remember it as a positive time in your relationship."

*wheeze*

that response was what told me I had to step away from the thread.

JoJo+Leo · January 2012

I am shocked at how many people on there took their cheating BF/H/FIs back and it is "totally awesome now, I mean, not the same because it never will be, but AWESOME!" You know, until the next rough patch. OR you could find someone totally awesome who won't bang other women when times get tough.

FroggyFarts · January 2012

ReturnOfKuus:
An excerpt from my favorite response:
"I'm not going to read all of the responses so sorry if this is repetitive...but I think that although it sucks right now, eventually you will be able to look back at this pregnancy and remember it as a positive time in your relationship."

*wheeze*

I just about choked on my water when I read that. There's some great advice. Huh?

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