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DH friend harrasses me on FB

I seriously cannot post ANYTHING w/out this guy trying to argue with me about it. I basically stop writing back, but he keeps on. TONIGHT (there are like 2 posts per week), he argued with me about Mormonism when I posted a funny picture of Rick Santorum in high school and put a caption "Napolean?" like Napolean Dynomite. B/c he looks like him. Well, DH friend wrote, at least he doesn't look Mormon. I wrote back once, saying that it's 2012, we have had a black Pres, women can vote, and gays can marry, get over it (in a nutshell). He said that at least he is not Mormon, and that he was "joking". He wrote a few times and I basically told him that he would argue with a picture of a butterfly on my page.

He seriously would argue with me if I said my favorite color is green.

 

I know I can "custom" my posts, but I sometimes forget and this guy pounces!!!!!

 

Any advice? I guess whatever you put on facebook is open for discussion, so I might as well shoot myself in the foot. Me and my big mouth.

Re: DH friend harrasses me on FB

  • I think you should stab his ass.
  • Yeah, I'd either de-friend him or customize your posts.

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    "If you wanna win then you shoulda put a hat on it. Don't be mad when you see a knit cap won it. If you wanna win then you shoulda put a hat on it."- Fenton

  • Can't you just unfriend and move on? I actually find it mildly concerning that you even need advice from internet strangers on this one...
  • imageTheDuckis:
    Can't you just unfriend and move on? I actually find it mildly concerning that you even need advice from internet strangers on this one...

    I understand the "advice from internet strangers". I wanted to make sure from an unbaised crowd (nesties:) ) that I wasn't being "oversensitive". This has been an ongoing issue, and I am over it at this point. After tonight, I cannot take it.

  • imagePeonyParty:
    Yeah, I'd either de-friend him or customize your posts.

     

    OMG love your siggy.

  • TSDTSD member
    "dh's friend- your responses on my page annoy the living shiit out of me. My page is not the debate team. If you continue to be irksome I'm going to have to defriend you here. I can't do it in real life but I definitely have that power here. So pipe down. That's your warning. Thanks! LoveYouMeanIt!"
  • I tried telling him that tonight, but your response is better!!!!!

     I guess why is the question? I mean, I am opinionated, but ***, he is outta control......bringing up crapolla that has nothing to do with the original post.

  • TSDTSD member
    Does it matter why? Maybe he has a crush on you, one on your husband or he just doesn't like you. In any case you're like oil and water. Just because he's your husband's friend doesn't mean he has to be your friend. Get rid of him. What are you waiting for? What is he going to do, cry? Tell on you? Or permanently set your statuses to custom where he can't see them. You don't have to do it per post. I have mine set to custom where basically anyone in my family can't see my statuses.
  • Either custom or unfriend, FB has these options then why don?t use it.
  • You don't have to customize each post, you can just go into Privacy Settings and edit who can see all of your wall posts and pictures. Then he'll be blocked from seeing any of it. I do this, because it seems less drama queeny than FB dumping.
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    "As of page 2 this might be the most boring argument ever. It's making me long for Rape Day." - Mouse
  • I restricted the posts. I had to go to my "lists" then added him to the Restricted list. Thank you all for the advice.

     

    I look forward to not being harrassed anymore!!!!!!1

  • That's awesome. And Fenton taught me something new.

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    "If you wanna win then you shoulda put a hat on it. Don't be mad when you see a knit cap won it. If you wanna win then you shoulda put a hat on it."- Fenton

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