August 2009 Weddings
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Who else is NOT ttc, pg or already a parent?

I can't be the only one left, right???
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Re: Who else is NOT ttc, pg or already a parent?

  • Sadly, me, but not exactly by choice.
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    Cycle 15 - 18, IUI #3-6 = BFN
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  • Me, too! Every year we say 5 more years. 
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  • imagerebaann:
    Sadly, me, but not exactly by choice.

     ((reba))

    I'll be hoping for that IVF drawing at the clinic to go your way, my dear!

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  • ((hugs)) reba. I'm also hoping for some good news on Saturday for you.

    We're not trying. We still haven't decided when/if we'll start trying.  

  • Reba, hugs. Ditto Jane, I hope the drawing goes your way.

    Not TTC and still deciding in this corner.

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  • You aren't alone. Dh and I don't want kids. It's not in our life plan.
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  • we're still both in school so it will definitely be a couple years for us!  I like my freedom :)
  • imageamandasw:

      I like my freedom :)

    Me too.  I'm glad I'm not the only one on here!  We are fast becoming a smaller and smaller minority though!  Wink

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  • imageJaneGold:

    imageamandasw:

      I like my freedom :)

    Me too.  I'm glad I'm not the only one on here!  We are fast becoming a smaller and smaller minority though!  Wink

    so true!  (well, not IRL, a lot of my friends aren't even married and luckily most of the married ones are not TTC either Wink)

  • DH and I still don't have plans to have kids for another three years. We both just recently graduated and we are trying to get our professional careers going. Reba I have my fingers crossed for you!
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    imageamandasw:

      I like my freedom :)

    Me too.  I'm glad I'm not the only one on here!  We are fast becoming a smaller and smaller minority though!  Wink

    I am pg, but this is what I'm most scared of in becoming a parent!

  • imagekaesha:
    imageJaneGold:

    imageamandasw:

      I like my freedom :)

    Me too.  I'm glad I'm not the only one on here!  We are fast becoming a smaller and smaller minority though!  Wink

    I am pg, but this is what I'm most scared of in becoming a parent!

    I bet you'll be able to find a balance if you and your H can prioritize making time for yourselves.  Just b/c you have a child shouldn't mean that you have to lose the rest of yourself; you'll be a parent but you'll still be other things too.  It seems like it takes adjustment and some effort, but you'll be fine. 

    (This is what H and I keep telling ourselves when discussing future parenthood anyway!  A dog was a MAJOR step for us, so I am a little nervous about kids too.)

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  • imagekaesha:
    imageJaneGold:

    imageamandasw:

      I like my freedom :)

    Me too.  I'm glad I'm not the only one on here!  We are fast becoming a smaller and smaller minority though!  Wink

    I am pg, but this is what I'm most scared of in becoming a parent!

    I bet you'll be able to find a balance if you and your H can prioritize making time for yourselves.  Just b/c you have a child shouldn't mean that you have to lose the rest of yourself; you'll be a parent but you'll still be other things too.  It seems like it takes adjustment and some effort, but you'll be fine. 

    (This is what H and I keep telling ourselves when discussing future parenthood anyway!  A dog was a MAJOR step for us, so I am a little nervous about kids too.)

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  • I'm late, but no kids and no getting KU anytime soon. Not intentionally, anyway. I love bf and can't picture anyone else I'd rather be a parent with, but we're both still really young and I enjoy my freedom. We're thinking three-ish years until we start ttc.
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  • imagekaesha:
    imageJaneGold:

    imageamandasw:

      I like my freedom :)

    Me too.  I'm glad I'm not the only one on here!  We are fast becoming a smaller and smaller minority though!  Wink

    I am pg, but this is what I'm most scared of in becoming a parent!

    Please don't be nervous about this. The first month or two is a transition, but it's all in what you make of it. We keep our pack n' play in the car and just tuck in the bub wherever we happen to be at night. He doesn't sleep as good, but he knows that it's still bed time. We also don't do any strict routine for bed time, and I think that might help some. Although, it might be why he didn't sleep good in the beginning. 

    Just make of it what you want and don't listen to people who tell you that your life will change so drastically. I've really only seen a difference in my sleep. Not much else has changed. 

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