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Scared of me?

To those people who were scared of me at first..

Looking back -

Do you think you were scared of me.. or were you scared of what I'd say to you that you were trying to avoid?

Re: Scared of me?

  • I was never scared of you, or what you'd say to me.  I did not, however, expect you to like me much since I'm so Suzy-Mc--Sunshine. I thought I'd just endlessly annoy you.

    Glad ya do, though.  Big Smile

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  • imagealabaster_angel:

    To those people who were scared of me at first..

    Looking back -

    Do you think you were scared of me.. or were you scared of what I'd say to you that you were trying to avoid?

    This part. I'm always afraid of chastisement and you seem to be a harbinger of that Stick out tongue 

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  • imageSLouWE:

    I was never scared of you, or what you'd say to me.  I did not, however, expect you to like me much since I'm so Suzy-Mc--Sunshine. I thought I'd just endlessly annoy you.

    I love me some happy / fun / entertaining people! I wish everyone was enjoyable to be around!

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  • imageskippingstones:

    This part. I'm always afraid of chastisement and you seem to be a harbinger of that Stick out tongue 

    Then act accordingly!
  • You say a lot of things I did not/currently do not have the balls to say. You tell it like it is and I always wondered when I would post something that would "unleash your wrath." Ok not really "unleash your wrath" but more question myself in a devil's advocate sort of way. 

    I think this goes along with what Jenny#s posted in my complaint post earlier...people want to feel validated with what they think/feel. You are who you are and say what you say and mean it. You can't ask for much more. 


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  • imageStaza424:
    You can't ask for much more. 
    I want it dipped in glitter too.
  • imagealabaster_angel:
    imageskippingstones:

    This part. I'm always afraid of chastisement and you seem to be a harbinger of that Stick out tongue 

    Then act accordingly!

    I have always tried. I know I slip up and I have people like you to thank for pointing it out Smile 

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  • I wouldn't say I was ever scared of you, I appreciate a person who is honest and speaks their mind. And I am kind of curious as to what you think of me.

    In my beginning here though, I was rather put off by you by making a completely new post on something that I had made a typo about. I thought it was uncalled for, but I did seem like an idiot in that moment.

    I do think that you are one of the most genuine, honest, and kind people on this board. You just always tell it how it is, whether or not people are ready to hear it.

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  • Surprisingly you weren't on my intimidating list.

    I find it refreshing when people can say what I want to say. I have the same thoughts in my head, I just can't articulate it well.

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  • imagealabaster_angel:
    imageSLouWE:

    I was never scared of you, or what you'd say to me.  I did not, however, expect you to like me much since I'm so Suzy-Mc--Sunshine. I thought I'd just endlessly annoy you.

    I love me some happy / fun / entertaining people! I wish everyone was enjoyable to be around!

     image

    This still makes me giggle.

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  • imagealabaster_angel:
    imageStaza424:
    You can't ask for much more. 
    I want it dipped in glitter too.

    How about we just dump it on?

     glitter bombed


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  • It was mostly that I was afraid of what you'd say. When I lurked, I'd only be here every little bit and sometimes I'd see a post from you, directed towards another member, that came off snarky and mean... But I think I was looking at it more out of context because really you're just blunt. If someone is stupid, you call them on it, and if someone makes crappy decisions, you tell them. That's why I've come to value your opinion, but at first it scared the hell out of me because I thought I'd say something and for no reason you'd just be a beast. Turns out you're simply the "honest friend". EVERYONE needs an honest friend.
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  • imageStellarStaylor:

    Surprisingly you weren't on my intimidating list.

    I find it refreshing when people can say what I want to say. I have the same thoughts in my head, I just can't articulate it well.

    Ooooohhhh...who was?  Inquiring minds want to know!

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  • I can't imagine being "scared" of someone on the internet. I did, on the other hand, find you off-putting, in that I really preferred not to interact with you at all on here. I'm not sure when this changed, or why.
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  • imageLizO11:

    In my beginning here though, I was rather put off by you by making a completely new post on something that I had made a typo about. I thought it was uncalled for, but I did seem like an idiot in that moment.

    Sorry you were probably in the wrong place at the wrong time..

    I don't recall the post but I'd be willing to bet I was making an example because it was something that a lot of people did that was getting annoying.

    Or I found it funny..

  • imagelexxasaurus:
    Turns out you're simply the "honest friend". EVERYONE needs an honest friend.

    Do these jeans make my @ss look fat?


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  • imagelexxasaurus:
    Turns out you're simply the "honest friend". EVERYONE needs an honest friend.
    No doubt!
  • you still scare me and you have my address

     

    ::::;nervous shaking:::

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  • imageluckybride513:

    you still scare me and you have my address

    I love this along with your siggy award picture.
  • imageSLouWE:
    imageStellarStaylor:

    Surprisingly you weren't on my intimidating list.

    I find it refreshing when people can say what I want to say. I have the same thoughts in my head, I just can't articulate it well.

    Ooooohhhh...who was?  Inquiring minds want to know!

    It was mostly the board as a group, the relationships they had/have with each other.

    I will say the person who sticks out the most was Ang. Only because I think she comes off as abrasive when she doesn't really mean it.

    I also could be totally off-base with this and maybe she does mean it.

    Either way, I've gotten passed it, and realize this is a board full of (mostly) cool-ass chicks. 

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  • imageStellarStaylor:

    Surprisingly you weren't on my intimidating list.

    I find it refreshing when people can say what I want to say. I have the same thoughts in my head, I just can't articulate it well.

    This.  I think most of what you say, but I am working on being nicer in life so I keep them to myself.  Plus I know you will say what needs to be said, so thanks for letting me off the hook with myself :-) 

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  • imagealabaster_angel:
    imageLizO11:

    In my beginning here though, I was rather put off by you by making a completely new post on something that I had made a typo about. I thought it was uncalled for, but I did seem like an idiot in that moment.

    Sorry you were probably in the wrong place at the wrong time..

    I don't recall the post but I'd be willing to bet I was making an example because it was something that a lot of people did that was getting annoying.

    Or I found it funny..

    Meh, I get that now, it was just off putting in the beginning. :) No worries. 

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