Trouble in Paradise
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KatiesCats - any updates?

How's your situation?

ETA - sorry for the double Ks.

Re: KatiesCats - any updates?

  • *I reserve the right to dd this because my H sees me nesting sometimes* 

    I didn't tell my H.  That would've been a bad idea.

    I did reduce contact with work guy though, and have focused more on my H.  I haven't spent any time alone with work guy since posting.  I think that posting about it here made it more real, and the advice and opinions posted here were mostly helpful.  Some people called me a terrible person, which I expected, but I don't really believe.  A terrible person wouldn't have posted what I posted...she would've let things get worse.  I just got carried away.

    So.  Things are great.  I appreciate everyone's input, and took it all into consideration.  Marriage > dude I just met.

  • This sounds smart to me.
    I agree with everything that muddled said. You should listen to her. -ESDReturns
  • All good decisions, I think.  And really, I think that after a while, the discussion here got blown out of proportion from a crush that you weren't acting on but felt weird and guilty about, to something far more nefarious that had little to do with your actual life.
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  • imageReturnOfKuus:
    All good decisions, I think.  And really, I think that after a while, the discussion here got blown out of proportion from a crush that you weren't acting on but felt weird and guilty about, to something far more nefarious that had little to do with your actual life.

    Thank you.  I thought the same thing, but didn't want to defend myself and fuel the flames.  I feel a lot better now.

  • I agree w/ Kuus! Sounds like you've made some positive changes KC. 
  • ITA with Kuus. Glad to know you're feeling better about it!
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