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I'm a loser

how long would you wait at a bar for a friend?
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Re: I'm a loser

  • I've waited a long time. Like an hour or more but sf traffic sucks

     

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  • we had plans to meet between 5 and 5:30 I waited til 6:15.  I got home and now there's a fb message saying she was at the car dealership and couldn't find my #, but I gave her my # earlier in the message thread.  why does everyone hate me?
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  • I would have done exactly that 
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  • If she's on her phone (and didn't have your number) she might not have been able to access the rest of the message thread.  My phone only shows so many messages, for reasons I don't understand.
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  • I would have done the same. Is she giving you crap?
  • no *** yet, but I don't have a fancy phone so I couldn't see her message and couldn't message her.  I just feel like a loser :(
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  • No.  Don't feel bad.  She didn't stand you up; she got stuck with her errand.  I bet she feels bad.  You didn't stand her up.  You acted reasonably.  If it was me stuck and I could have gotten in touch with you, I would have said let's re-schedule.  No one should have to wait an hour for someone to arrive.
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    No.  Don't feel bad.  She didn't stand you up; she got stuck with her errand.  I bet she feels bad.  You didn't stand her up.  You acted reasonably.  If it was me stuck and I could have gotten in touch with you, I would have said let's re-schedule.  No one should have to wait an hour for someone to arrive.

    Ditto. If I were her I would feel like an ass. I would have waited about the same amount of time as you I think and then given up. I'd probably be irritated, but get over it fairly quickly and not hold a grudge if I were you.  

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    Come on Mashed. Why not just make friends at the bar? I probably would have thought something happened to her, depending on who it was. I had two friends that were just chronically late so I just stopped making plans with them. I definitely wouldn't feel like a loser though! However I would be mad that I wasted a hair washing on her, if I did indeed actually wash my hair.
  • I'm an every day hair washer TSD.  It's fine, I just hate looking like a fool, but it seems like a ligit reason.  I'll give it another go.  and the one guy close enough to maybe talk to wasn't a Pats fan so... 
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