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Is there something magical about the number twenty one?
I'd be annoyed if I were the dh in that scenario and I had inexplicable limits placed on my responses/reactions to various issues. I also get pissy when people tell me I can't reply OR ELSE.
SO SINGS MY SOUL *WHAM!* MY SAVIOR GOD TO THEE *WHAM!* HOW GREAT THOU ART *WHAM!* HOW GREAT THOU ART *WHAM!*
Re: Is there something magical about the number twenty one?
Who knows. She has been having issues w/ her DH for as long as I can remember her name on the nest. It's funny how this issue is now "resolved" - probably because he apologized for his crappy behavior and she'll turn a blind eye until the next time he does something similar. It seems like she is equal parts of the problem in this situation w/ both of their poor communication skills.
ETA - I think it's ironic that she's posted 3 times (THREE) in that thread how she will DD it if anyone responds after her post (since her post is number 21) that the issue is resolved. WTF? Guess I may have pushed the post over the edge into DDness.
~Benjamin Franklin
DS dx with celiac disease 5/28/10
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When a 6'4" hot swedish viking vampire 1,000 years your senior is your competition, just give up.
What happened today?
I guess the good just has to outweigh the bad.
He wanted me to help him move the cars around, so he could get to work (one car driveway). Usually we'll swap between both of us doing the cars, or him by himself (if he needs to leave), or me by myself (if I need to leave).
Today, he was upset that I said "no" to helping him.
When a 6'4" hot swedish viking vampire 1,000 years your senior is your competition, just give up.
We are all over tired, due to ds being sick while at the same time transitioning from a crib to a bed..with 5 hours maximum of interupted sleep cycles. its been a long few days to say the least.
and it was 530a, woke from sound sleep to help him...
When a 6'4" hot swedish viking vampire 1,000 years your senior is your competition, just give up.
Well knowing a little more information (and remembering some of your backstory), I think that having things that irk you is different than your DH not communicating with you and saying hurtful things when you are having a disagreement.
For example, it irks me that my FI will leave a dish in the sink after I just cleaned the kitchen or his socks all over the living room. I'm a clean freak and therefore get annoyed about that stuff kind of easily - to a fault. This is a lot different than having him say hurtful things or hurtful names during an argument only to apologize for them later.
Why do you put up the above bolded behavior?
i think i just needed to vent a bit. is it pride? maybe. childish asofrickenlutley. Im just exahusted...i need more sleep...
When a 6'4" hot swedish viking vampire 1,000 years your senior is your competition, just give up.
i would imagine that this could be solved the night before.....perhaps better planning would help you both.
if not, it wouldn't take any more than 5 minutes. i reallt dont see what the issue is. i would've helped him out. i get his back, he gets mine. that's the rule. it keeps things nice and peaceful. he does things to make my life easier and i do the same for him.
DH and I are happily child-free!! No due date or toddler tickers here!!
This doesn't qualify as an irk. it qualifies for a throat punch.
I'm of two minds if DH ever did something like this to me :
1- That he was in such a panic and need that I would pop-up and help him without question.
2- That he has lost his mind.
My darling daughter just turned 4 years old.
I find it funny that she believes that they "rarely fight" when my only lasting memory of her as a poster is that she doesn't really actually "like" her husband much and they don't get along.
the last few replies that got missed by the C&P, because ziti is comedy GOLD people
Twenty-three is the loneliest number that you'll ever do
Twenty-two can be as bad as Twenty-three
It's the loneliest number since the number Twenty-three
No is the saddest experience you'll ever know
Yes, it's the saddest experience you'll ever know
`Cause Twenty-three is the loneliest number that you'll ever do
Twenty-three is the loneliest number, worse than twenty-two
It's just no good anymore since she went away
Now I spend my time just making rhymes of yesterday
Twenty-three is the loneliest, number twenty-three is the loneliest
Number Twenty-three is the loneliest number that you'll ever do
Twenty-three is the loneliest, one is the loneliest
Twenty-three is the loneliest number that you'll ever do
It's just no good anymore since she went away
(Number) Twenty-three is the loneliest
(Number) Twenty-three is the loneliest
(Number) Twenty-three is the loneliest number that you'll ever do
(Number) Twenty-three is the loneliest
(Number) Twenty-three is the loneliest
(Number) Twenty-three is the loneliest number that you'll ever do
we must be miracle workers-1 post, our advice and **poof** the issue that's been going on for years has been resolved.
::side eye:: i totally dont believe you princess.
Well the whole roundabout way of asking, for pity's sake. "What do you do when your dh irks you"? What she was really asking is "wasn't my dh an ass for waking me at five thirty to move my car instead of just moving it himself?" I don't know if he was being an ass; I'd expect better in general from my dh, but in some situations, this might not be such an awful thing.
roflcopterz....i feel like totally bad for your husbands too!
gbcn foreverz! wahhh wahhh boo hoo.
post count up by 1 woot!
1 BSC bitoch!
Zomg!!!! you like totally like got me...roflcopterz. the nestestesties are like so cruelz wahhhh wahhhh wahhhh