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If you have toys does your DH/SO know?
While dating my DH found my stash of toys in my bedside table. It was no
big deal to me as I wasn't hiding them and they were in plain sight.
He, however, was kind of freaked out about it. I have since retired
those toys because I needed something new. The thing is that I never
told him about the new toy and I enjoy it in secret - probably due to his initial reaction.
/I never orgasm during intercourse and he is poor in other avenues to orgasm so I feel this is my only outlet.
Am I alone??
Re: If you have toys does your DH/SO know?
DH knows about my toys and I know about his porn collection. It's not a secret on either of our part, but we try to be discrete about it.
Yes he knows. I bought it last year. I think he was mildly surprised to hear that I've actually used it, but I was quick to point out it was only a couple of times (we started trying around the same time and the real deal was much more fun!)
We've been together since we were 19 and I guess I was somewhat of a late sexual bloomer. DH is actually the one who told me I should go out with some friends to a novelty shop and purchase something. He's also gone with me a few times, but those times we wind up leaving with something tame like massage oil lol.
Of course he knows, and has even bought some for me.
I married an adult, whi isnt intimidated by a piece of latex.
I thinkn k it is very sad that you have to hide this from your H and that he feels threatened by it.
Yeah, he knows.
Why did your spouse flip out?
Yup, DH knows. We use them during intercourse and I use them alone. Does he know how many? I am sure he has not counted but he can point them out in a line up.
I also have books and videos (AKA classic porn) so he is not intimidated at all because I tell him I love the real thing more than something to plug in and charge or battery operated.
Same for me. DH likes to surprise me every now and then with a new vibrator (like for Christmas or anniversary). Like PP, we use them together. My suggestion to you is to educate your husband on the fact that MOST women need clitoral stimulation in order to orgasm. Try using one on the outside while having sex. You'll have the best orgasms of your life, and after you get used to doing this, you might eventually have orgasms from g-spot stimulation (internal) and from stimulation of the clitoris.