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JFC on a cracker. Really?
So...the guy I broke up with about 7 weeks ago?
He just had some random guy deliver a rose and a sappy card to my office.
We dated right at 4 months, I actually ended it on the 12th and our first date had been on the 13th. He told me he loved me, and it freaked me the hell out, I knew I wouldn't feel that way for him. We just weren't compatible for the long run, and we were starting to argue a lot.
I told him 3 weeks ago to stop texting me and telling me he missed me and that we were making a mistake breaking up. I deleted him from facebook and told him I didn't want to hear from him anymore.
He texted me on Saturday, and I ignored him.
And now an effing flower.
Don't get me wrong, it's quite possibly the nicest thing anyone has ever done for me (no one has ever tried to woo me back before), but it's overkill. It makes me feel even more guilty for hurting him.
WTF.
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Re: JFC on a cracker. Really?
Have you been forceful and clear that you do not want any contact at all? I'd say block his number or say something directly like - Do not contact me in anyway any more.
ETA - This behavior seems creepy and a little alarming to me, especially if you only dated for a few months.
They see us rollin'...they be hatin'.
I think I would be freaked out by the fact he had a random guy go to your office. Workplace is a no no for this kind of thing. Where is the respect? Did this guy work at the same company?
Don't feel guilty.
I'd be annoyed.
I have no idea in the world who it was that delivered it. He was an older guy wearing a suit without the jacket. The only guy that works in his office is the owner of the company.
I completely get feeling like you need to make a last ditch effort to win someone back, I might do the same thing. But I've made it ABUNDANTLY clear that we're over and that if he was going to make any references to missing me, making a mistake, starting over, etc., that I would have to cut off all contact. He stepped on, so I did.
This sucks, because it's such a sweet thing to do, and if I felt the same way and we'd just broken up and still had a chance to get back together, it would be like a movie. No one has ever wanted me back after they broke up with me, and none of the few I broke up with ever tried to woo me back either. It sucks to know that it's something I would wish for in different circumstances, but he's the only one I've got.
It's just enought to be creepy without spending a lot of money.