samymakes2

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• BettyBookworm

  January 2012

  I hope she is ok.
  

  
  
  

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• julie324

  January 2012

  I am glad you are okay.  I know it is overwhelming.  Don't blame yourself for missing warning signs.  Please rethink staying with him.   DO NOT let him convince you that you are "playing the victim."  You are a victim and h is an abuser.  Can you go home to your parents?  I know it is scary, but you need to leave NOW!

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• magsugar13 member

  

  January 2012

  your mother told youto stay with an abuser until you figure it all out? wow

  
  
  

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• Geek_Girl member

  January 2012

  You're not going to go through with the counseling are you?  He's again putting this all on you and you deserve better.  Please keep telling yourself that.

  Have you talked to any other resources (such as an attorney)?
  

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• julie324

  January 2012

  It is dangerous to stay with him even if you are on opposite schedules.  You need to go stay with someone and not tell your husband where you are.  Then you can get individual counseling and an attorney from a safe place.  This is not your fault.  You need to leave.

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• Motzie member

  

  January 2012

  I missed your OP. Sometimes moms are just wrong, and in this case, yours is. It sounds like she does not get it at all. Trust your gut, get out of there and don't let him sucker you into counseling with him.

  Check me out.

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• BooBooKittyFuk

  January 2012

  You sound married to my ex.  While in that relationship, I thought the only way out was to kill myself. I seriously considered it.  Please get out now!!

  What you think, you will become.

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