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TMI #2

roxygrl1429roxygrl1429
in February 2008 Weddings
Who initiates sex more? You or H? I find myself initiating more than him now a days. And I have a pretty low sex drive.
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  • CEOwifeCEOwife
    He is more likely to initiate in the bedroom...esp. on Sunday night. I have no idea but it is like part of his Sunday night routine.  I am more likely to get frisky on the couch or in the kitchen.  I would say 50/50.
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  • KimberetKimberet
    I think it is pretty equal. However, I get turned down sometimes (I don't turn him down even if I'm not in the mood...whatever), but I guess that is ok. lol
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  • MaggieandJakeMaggieandJake member
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    Lately, I feel like it's always been me.  Of course he waits until I'm sicker than a dog to initiate.  Yeah?that didn't work out very well. LOL.
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  • MissD611MissD611
    He definitely initiates more than I do. Lately though, I'm wondering if thats because of my birth control. i started on it before i even started having sex so now im not sure if i have a low sex drive or if its the pills.
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  • StokedWifeyStokedWifey
    Usually him, but he refuses to with my current situation, so it's now my job. ha
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  • KimberetKimberet

    imageMissD611:
    He definitely initiates more than I do. Lately though, I'm wondering if thats because of my birth control. i started on it before i even started having sex so now im not sure if i have a low sex drive or if its the pills.

    I had absolutely no sex-drive when I was on the pill. Within a couple of weeks after getting off the pill, it increased quite a bit (it still isn't super high, but it is much better than it was).

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  • roxygrl1429roxygrl1429

    imageStokedWifey:
    Usually him, but he refuses to with my current situation, so it's now my job. ha

    awwwwww, you need to print him some materials that shows him it's safe!!!

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  • bell2bellingbell2belling
    Probably me more than him, we're pretty close to even though. 
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    imageroxygrl1429:

    imageStokedWifey:
    Usually him, but he refuses to with my current situation, so it's now my job. ha

    awwwwww, you need to print him some materials that shows him it's safe!!!

    I agree! The best thing about sex when you are pregnant? You don't have to worry about getting pregnant!
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  • emtangie3emtangie3
    I do aparently. It doesn't take much though hahaha. He thinks I am wearing tight jeans or a low cut shirt as me initiating or inviting him to initiate.
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  • MissD611MissD611

    stoked 

    is it like that movie knocked up where hes afraid hes going to traumatize the baby 

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    ive been looking into other options. ive heard of a lot of girls having a similar issue. it would be nice to actually have some drive. lol

     argh i hate this phone and the lack of caps and punctuation. imagine an exclamation point there 

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  • thebennerhalfthebennerhalf
    I do, and it's starting to really frustrate me. I actually posted about it last year, and it got a little better once I talked to him about it, but we're back to square 1. Doesn't he know I'm a sexy beast??! :)
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  • StokedWifeyStokedWifey
    imageroxygrl1429:

    imageStokedWifey:
    Usually him, but he refuses to with my current situation, so it's now my job. ha

    awwwwww, you need to print him some materials that shows him it's safe!!!

    He knows it's safe- he just doesn't want to initiate it if I'm in pain, don't feel well, etc. 

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  • CalisticCalistic
    I do most of the time in the evenings, but he does in the mornings. I have no desire in the mornings so, I don't even think about it. In the evenings , he is tired from work and I think he doesn't think about it. I think it is just how things work out. It seems to work for us.
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  • ashleyangel510ashleyangel510
    It's probably about even for us.
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    I would say he does more. H recently complained about that actually, lol. I need to get better about initiating.
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  • planetkariplanetkari

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    I would say he does more. H recently complained about that actually, lol. I need to get better about initiating.

    Same here.  H usually initiates, but not all the time.  I like to surprise him by initiating, which he loves.  I swear my BCP has decreased my sex drive over the years, which is something you guys have also shared.

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  • AMJ6511AMJ6511 member
    Usually him. Although, lately we have been so stressed that it hasn't been too frequent. I have a low sex drive due to the pill and my beta blocker, but now that I'm off the pill until they get my migraines figured out I'm hoping it will increase. 
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  • csh96csh96
    It's been me more than him lately which I find irritating sometimes!  He seems to think we only have time on his days off so he makes no attempts on the other days. 
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    imageKimberet:
    I think it is pretty equal. However, I get turned down sometimes (I don't turn him down even if I'm not in the mood...whatever), but I guess that is ok. lol
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  • annagtz82annagtz82
    Raymond does for sure. I have zero to no sex drive so even if he's up for it and he tries to get me in the mood, it doesn't work. We don't have sex that often anymore.

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