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Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
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Thank you.
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More JFC on another cracker
If you don't see me around for a little while, call out the cadaver dogs, because I'm probably in a shallow grave in the woods.
The night I got the rose and card from the ex, he sent me a longass email detailing why I should give him another chance. It contained sentences like. "I want to spend the rest of my life proving to you that we can be together." "I'm drawn to you." "I love you and nothing in this world is more important to me than making this right." "Nothing in my world is important without you in it." "Give me a chance to re-fill that part of your heart that I once occupied."
I might have to join the Witness Protection Program.
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Re: More JFC on another cracker
Tell him that this is considered stalking and you will file a police report.
ETA: Always let a friend or family member know where you are. If you feel unsafe or see him when you're alone, call the police.
Stalkers get off on any contact, even if it's telling them to screw off. I'd consider emailing him one more time to make it clear you want no contact of any kind, but if he keeps contacting you after that you may want to call a victim advocate (they have them at the prosecutor's offices) to see if there are any other steps you should be taking.
You can always block his number, block his email, and depending on your state serve him with no trespassing papers for your work and your house.
BTW I don't want to embarrass you, but is this the rough sex guy? Those qualities in combination is what concerns me somewhat.
Yep, one in the same.
I'm going to lay low for a bit and see what happens.
I'd send him one last email and make it very clear that you want no further contact at all and say that you will get a restraining order if necessary. That way if he keeps it up, it'll make your case to get an restraining order (if necessary) easier.
Be safe. He sounds creepy!
I disagree. I'm under the impression she already made it VERY clear there was to be no further contact. ANY engagement with these type of people, even if negative is better in their eyes than no contact. I think it's best to continue to ignore, but do keep records of everything.