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Re: **jennuinne**
No worries. Everyone that knows him thinks he's just going through some weird phase b/c he's always been so into wanting kids and give it time. I have no idea how to handle this. My gut says it's something else and he will obviously want kids, but he seemed so serious the other day...I don't know. It's really weird in my house right now.
I don't think he's normally super into world events. But, I think there is probably something that is freaking him out, but he either doesn't realize what that is or doesn't want to tell me. It might be a money issue, a fear that we will never have sex again (he's mentioned this before), that he will be stuck forever on the west coast (all his friends & fam are on the east coast). I have no idea.
The only thing I know, or that he says, is that he is weirdly obsessed with being famous and/or rich. He's always reading how to succeed books and wants to start his own business (what it is changes from time to time). He says he wants to focus on saving money for a business (not a baby) and start a business and become a millionaire in 5 years. He's a bit of a dreamer. Maybe this is all it is, but I can't wrap my head around how this is what he is really thinking and why he doesn't want kids. Maybe it is; maybe he's just crazy.
He's a leo and grew up poor in a bad neighborhood, which I think cause him to feel like he needs to be somebody of have "things" to prove that he made it. Maybe being black too. I don't know; I don't get it.
My H is a leo and has this tendancy. He always bottles up his stress about finances....
i think this is awesome...if he were much younger. it's important to have dreams, and to "shoot for the stars", but when you get older, you have to realize what is realistic or not. does he know the stats of people who *actually* make it in those business plans? because the success rates of those are actually very low....do you ever tr and talk him out of it?
♥ bfp1 06/14/2011 ♥ edd 02/22/2012 ♥
♥ baby jennlin born on 02/15/2012 ♥
who says you can only wear your wedding dress once?
honeymoon bio ♥ married bio ♥ planning bio
jumped ship to the new and improved nest. back to TB for baby boards.