Trouble in Paradise
magsugar13
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Is it creepy for man to masturbate in HIS bed while wife is asleep?
This wife thinks so...
http://community.thenest.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/62730295.aspx
she also wont have sex with him...
Re: Is it creepy for man to masturbate in HIS bed while wife is asleep?
Umm, yeah.
its not keeping her awake ....she said she isnt really slepping when he starts (he thinks shes asleep)
my point is WHY should he take it somewhere esle? he isnt waking her and she wont do him.
I must be a HUGE creep, then. lol
Her solution of "catching him in the act" so she can browbeat him about it is a terrible idea. Don't make someone feel bad about masturbating, jeezus, even if it is kinda creepy. Have an adult conversation. If she can't do that, she shouldn't have gotten married. Who are these people that cannot talk about issues with their spouses?
I think she needs to address her lack of sex drive, otherwise they're just dealing with a symptom of a larger problem. Why does he have to be the one to initiate? if anything, I bet he's feeling rejected by her and that's his way of feeling close to her while getting some kind of sexual gratification.
LMAO
And there is nothing ruder than deliberately interrupting someone masturbating. No matter how funny you think it is.
Yes, Mr. Kuus, if you're looking, I'm talking to you.
Truer words were never spoken.
well, i kinda like when he interupts!
for realz lol
She won't do him, won't discuss it with him, and he can't whack off in his own bed by his wife,either now. Sigh.
I bet she gets REALLY pissed when he finally breaks down and finds some nice girl who will bang him. THEN he'll be the betrayer, the unfaithful one, etc.
She has a child with someone that she is not comfortable discussing sex and masturbation with?
For seriously?
And just saying oh well, no sex drive and not doing anything to work towards, or even discuss, a solution is ridiculous.
LOL!
I was going to say... I consider it an invitation.
Is he cumming on her pillow and laughing maniacally?
I have never understood why people are so bothered by masturbation. I just assume DH does it, never caught him, wouldn't care if I did. He knows I do.
so..hes supposed to go in another room to get off?
Who wants to do that in the bathroom? or in the living room... guests sit in there!
You have to get it right: "A lot of many napkins"
Mags has it right. If I'm being interrupted, it better be with an active participant.
That said, this chick is a loony if she expects the man not to masturbate and she's not putting out either.
ETA: I also like how she makes her big issue that he's in bed with her and not going to another room, even though she opens the post with serious distaste for his past "other room" behavior. Some people.
She has an update.
http://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/62764731.aspx
They are about 12 years old when it comes to sex. She can't say "penis" and it turns out he has a medical issue.
ETA- I guess he has no problem maintaining an erection for self-love, but not for sex? Seems like more than a physical problem to me.
This was my exact thought Mort!
I fail the subject of accurately remembering crazy Nest quotes.
alot of many napkins Ladybug is our Wedding Woes board moderator now. True story!
Definitely. If they can't discuss sex, I'm going to go ahead and guess that there's no "pssssst.. you know what would be AWESOME..." going on in bed, either verbally or physically.
But the "I'm looking forward to it" in the follow up is a very good start, thought I wonder if she actually said "let's make out."