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Update

So, after an hour of trying to get DH to tell me what's really go on, I figured out that he is a girl.  I mean, I am very emotion, crazy, irrational, insecure, etc. too often.  I didn't realize he can be exactly like this sometimes too.

Apparantly, we had a conversation sometime in the last month or two (which I have little to no recollection of).  DH belives I said that we wouldn't be toghether forever, we would get divorced someday, I would leave him or something to this effect.  I think I might have said something like it's scary to see all these people getting divorced and it makes me worry that we won't make it, do you think we can (wanting him to reassure me).  Then, he says I got "baby obsessed" (although I wanted to wait on having a baby, and was talking about it b/c several people I know are PG, but no more than I normally do).  Somehow in his head, he turned this into I only wanted him for babies and then I would leave him.  I have no idea how he really thought this!?!  So, that's why he said he didn't want kids.  In reality, he really wants kids, but he wants to know that I'm in it forever, no mattter what, divorce is never an option.

He's so crazy!  But, I guess it's kind of sweet too.  I told him if something is bothering him this much in the future, he needs to tell me...right away, when I still remember what the h*ll he is talking about, so that we can discuss it.

Then, we wanted to get started on that baby right away.  Indifferent

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  • I'm so glad you guys got that worked out ok!
  • Isn't it crazy how misunderstanding one line of one conversation can lead to this kind of thing?

    I'm so glad you guys got it sorted out. Enjoy what that leads to :)


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  • this made me cry. (see? i'm super emotional).

    i think it's cute that your h was so worried about that. but, it happens. i'm glad you two weren't so far-off when it comes to wanting kids..

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  • Looks like things ended up okay! Lord knows we all have our crazy freakout moments. Still, I hope you gave him this expression afterwards!

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  • That's amazing. I'm glad everything is ok!
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  • Hahahaha OMG. My DH can be such a girl, too! He's so funny that way. He'll get an idea in his head and stew on it for days and I'll have no idea what is going on until I pry it from him. It's like pulling teeth!!

    I'm so glad you guys got that straightened out! :)

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  • It was more like this:

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  • OMG, I'm glad things worked out. I can't believe your H got things so twisted.
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  •  Glad you finally got that out of him!!! Oh the poor thing, that's so sweet and I feel badly for him that he took that conversation that way!

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    Then, we wanted to get started on that baby right away.  Indifferent

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  • imagejennuinne:

    It was more like this:

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    Very nice. :)


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    imagejennuinne:

    It was more like this:

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    Very nice. :)

     

    Haha. Good! 

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  • Dh and I had a similar gigantic, months-long misunderstanding. I was totally speechless when I figured out what was going on, too, which he took to mean I was furious. Once we talked it out, I kind of was furious bc he didn't just say something about it... Anything. Anyway, I feel your pain.
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  • yay!! things like this have TTOTALLY happened to us too.

    so wait, are you ttgktfu now then????????????????

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  • Glad everything worked out!
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  • omg. Boys. (No offense, niq!)

    I'm so glad you've gotten this worked out -- that is such a colossal miscommunication and getting that ironed out is SO important! *Hugs*

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  • I'm happy that you guys got that figured out! GL Smile
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  • Oh I'm so happy! I've been thinking about you and hoping things worked out. I've had similar things happen with my H about something I said like MONTHS ago that I have no memory off pop back up. So glad this got worked out!
  • imagejennuinne:

    Then, we wanted to get started on that baby right away.  Indifferent

    Oops, epic typo.  HE wanted to get started on that baby right away.  My response was: Indifferent

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  • Oh I'm so happy you guys worked it out! I was wondering, but didn't want to be all up in your business. Now go make some pretty babies! 
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