So, after an hour of trying to get DH to tell me what's really go on, I figured out that he is a girl. I mean, I am very emotion, crazy, irrational, insecure, etc. too often. I didn't realize he can be exactly like this sometimes too.
Apparantly, we had a conversation sometime in the last month or two (which I have little to no recollection of). DH belives I said that we wouldn't be toghether forever, we would get divorced someday, I would leave him or something to this effect. I think I might have said something like it's scary to see all these people getting divorced and it makes me worry that we won't make it, do you think we can (wanting him to reassure me). Then, he says I got "baby obsessed" (although I wanted to wait on having a baby, and was talking about it b/c several people I know are PG, but no more than I normally do). Somehow in his head, he turned this into I only wanted him for babies and then I would leave him. I have no idea how he really thought this!?! So, that's why he said he didn't want kids. In reality, he really wants kids, but he wants to know that I'm in it forever, no mattter what, divorce is never an option.
He's so crazy! But, I guess it's kind of sweet too. I told him if something is bothering him this much in the future, he needs to tell me...right away, when I still remember what the h*ll he is talking about, so that we can discuss it.
Then, we wanted to get started on that baby right away. ![]()
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Isn't it crazy how misunderstanding one line of one conversation can lead to this kind of thing?
I'm so glad you guys got it sorted out. Enjoy what that leads to
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Valentine's Day Dash 5k, 02/11/2012, 33:03
Seahawks 12k, 04/01/2012, 1:23:17
Bellevue 10k, 04/29/2012
Beat the Bridge 8k, 05/20/2012
Seattle Rock n Roll Half Marathon, 06/23/2012
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this made me cry. (see? i'm super emotional).
i think it's cute that your h was so worried about that. but, it happens. i'm glad you two weren't so far-off when it comes to wanting kids..
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Looks like things ended up okay! Lord knows we all have our crazy freakout moments. Still, I hope you gave him this expression afterwards!
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Hahahaha OMG. My DH can be such a girl, too! He's so funny that way. He'll get an idea in his head and stew on it for days and I'll have no idea what is going on until I pry it from him. It's like pulling teeth!!
I'm so glad you guys got that straightened out!
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It was more like this:
♥ bfp1 06/14/2011 ♥ edd 02/22/2012 ♥
♥ baby jennlin born on 02/15/2012 ♥
who says you can only wear your wedding dress once?
honeymoon bio ♥ married bio ♥ planning bio
jumped ship to the new and improved nest. back to TB for baby boards.
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Glad you finally got that out of him!!! Oh the poor thing, that's so sweet and I feel badly for him that he took that conversation that way!
This made me giggle super loudly at work, thanks XDVery nice.
1st year anniversary in Victoria with a killer whale topiary!
Haha. Good!
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yay!! things like this have TTOTALLY happened to us too.
so wait, are you ttgktfu now then????????????????
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I'm so glad you've gotten this worked out -- that is such a colossal miscommunication and getting that ironed out is SO important! *Hugs*
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Oops, epic typo. HE wanted to get started on that baby right away. My response was: