June 2008 Weddings
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Birthday Dinner Payment Rules
My Dh's 30th is this year.
I want everyone (20-30 people) to go to dinner at his favorite local place (Montgomery Inn for the Cincy girls), however I DO NOT want to pay for this meal. We're talking $20-30 pp without drinks.
Can I send out an invite for this sort of thing? If I do that, will people assume I am paying? OR is there a way to word this without being tacky ...
I want everyone (20-30 people) to go to dinner at his favorite local place (Montgomery Inn for the Cincy girls), however I DO NOT want to pay for this meal. We're talking $20-30 pp without drinks.
Can I send out an invite for this sort of thing? If I do that, will people assume I am paying? OR is there a way to word this without being tacky ...
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Re: Birthday Dinner Payment Rules
I think if you send out a formal invite than it might imply that you pay.
If you informally asked, than I think people would recognize that its every man for himself.
This might also depend on your circle of family/friends and whats the norm. For me, a formal invite = free dinner.
My family totally gets that it'd be every man for himself. His family, not so much. Our friends, would be a mix, that's why I'm nervous.
Totally this.
Neena Mae. 1/7/10
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