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Also check community centers
Support groups might work out too.
I hope you two can work through this hiccup.
Marriage counseling may not be covered by you ins. but is single counseling (for you)?
The reason I ask, I know from experiance with my Exh and my ins at the time that there is a bit of a loophole. If said counseling is done as a single person session but the partner is brought in to help with the " problems of the one being counseled" the sessions are covered. I had a very nice psychologist who clued me in about that.
Kristi and Kerry June 21,2008
Do either of your parents work for the government in any way? I ask because I was able to receive counseling (with H, prior to marriage) because my mom works for a fire station and she said with all gov jobs, the employees family can receive free mental health benefits. It covered quite a few sessions both individually and together for both of us and H wasn't even technically family.
If not, I'd suggest going just you because I'm almost positive they have to cover individual mental health. Then once you've established a therapist, ask him/her to offer you a few sessions at a discount as a couple or maybe they'll even allow your H to come and just bill it normally. I go to most of H's sessions and she does help a lot marriage wise but its all billed under H's health plan as individual.
Sorry you're going through this, it's so upsetting to have marriage problems