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To buy a house or not....

Hubby and I will be PCS'ing soon and he only has about a year left in the military. I am prior service and I am eligable for a VA loan. We are trying to decide if we should but a house when we PCS or if we should wait till he gets out? Any suggestions, ideas??

Re: To buy a house or not....

  • That's not really enough info. What is your financial situation? Are you going to stay in the area of your next duty station after he gets out? If not, then why would you buy? I suppose I could see buying as an investment IF the rental market is not flooded and is very strong, but I know that's not the case where we are. Do you and your H have super fantastic civilian employment prospects (like he's an ATC or something)? MH does not, because his job is one of those fairly specific to the military kind of jobs, so I wouldn't consider buying until he gets promoted at least once more (to E6 so I know he gets to stay in, theoretically, since who knows what sort of changes to the rules are going to be made).

    H and I do not plan to buy while either of us is active duty (I'm trying to join), with the exception being if a house came on the market at a fantastic price where we think we want to retire on the other side of the country, because it is a strong rental market. I don't believe we could use a VA Loan for  what would not be our primary residence, though I haven't really researched it because I don't think we should buy there until H gets promoted and I get in + a few years. I think Tarheels&Rebels would be the person who knows most about VA Loans and rentals (if I'm thinking of the right person, I don't regularly lurk here). 

    I've seen a lot of military surprise homecomings. It wouldn't work on me. I always have my back to the corner and my face to the door. Looking for terrorists, criminals, various other threats, and husbands.
  • I agree that we need a little more info. Do you want to stay where you are PCSing? Personally, if you're going to be new to that area, I would rent for a little while to get an idea of what neighborhoods you like. Plus, if you're leaving the service, I'd want to know where we'd be commuting to before I chose a house. And I'd want to have jobs lined up for after the service. I guess I'm saying that I'd wait. The fed doesn't expect to change interest rates for at least another 2 years, and there isn't going to be a miraculous housing recovery in the next year, so there's no reason to rush. Also, I believe you still qualify for VA loans when you're no longer active duty. If you haven't already, take time to save up an e-fund with at least 6 months of expenses, a substantial down payment, and money for furniture. You'll enjoy your house a lot more if you're financially prepared for it.  Good luck!
  • Regarding your situation I would not know what is best but I can tell you from my personal experience I purchased a house 5 years ago because EVERYONE told me to.  So I did because it seemed the smart thing to do.  WRONG.  I thought I  would be throwing my money away on rent.  Now in my particular situation I am stuck with a house that I bought that has dropped dramatically in value and now have a growing family.  New husband, son, and pregnant again.  Would love to have rented instead if I could do it all over again!
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  • I apoligize for not giving more info. Hubby and I will be PCS'ing to PA but he has two years left. We are hoping he will remain there for the remainder and we would like to stay in that area. (it's our HOR) We thought about waiting two years till he's out but we really want a house. Just trying to decide if we should wait or if now is the best time to buy considering the low rates.
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    I apoligize for not giving more info. Hubby and I will be PCS'ing to PA but he has two years left. We are hoping he will remain there for the remainder and we would like to stay in that area. (it's our HOR) We thought about waiting two years till he's out but we really want a house. Just trying to decide if we should wait or if now is the best time to buy considering the low rates.

    Rates being low is not a good enough reason to buy. It really depends on your current financial situation and both of your prospects for employment. If he's Infantry, for instance, I would be loathe to buy until he has post-military employment. 

    I've seen a lot of military surprise homecomings. It wouldn't work on me. I always have my back to the corner and my face to the door. Looking for terrorists, criminals, various other threats, and husbands.
  • In that case, I would not buy now. First, you say that you are "hoping" to stay there for two years--what if you don't? Also, are you absolutely certain that you can find jobs in that area once he's done with the military? I wouldn't want to buy with that kind of uncertainty. I know how the housing bug is--but resist it. Rates will be low for another few years. Use this time to get yourself 100% ready for buying. 
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