Trouble in Paradise
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Sad update to Co-Worker's Pg Announcement (m/c mentioned)

My co-worker who had an ectopic last year & just told us that she was pregnant is living another nightmare. Originally she went into the hospital in extreme pain only to discover that the fetus had implanted in her tube. She got a methotroxate shot and was waiting to miscarry.

She got betas drawn and they were still rising for no known reason. She got another ultrasound this morning and a second baby had actually passed through her fallopian tube into the little space between it and her uterus. There was a heart beat, but the position of the fetus makes it too difficult to continue the pregnancy. To add to this heartbreak she is going to lose her last tube. They might try IVF in the future, but this might be the end of their TTC journey.

If you have any warm thoughts (or if you pray) could you please send some up for my friend? I was hoping she could have her take-home baby. To have two taken in such a short span seems desperately unfair. Crying
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Re: Sad update to Co-Worker's Pg Announcement (m/c mentioned)

  • Oh god, this is awful. I'm so sorry, major T&P for her. Sad
  • This is so sad, T & P for her and her SO
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  • That's absolutely horrible.  How incredibly sad for her.  Sending warm thoughts her way.  :(
  • Oh Betty, I'm so sorry for her. T&P for her family.
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  • that is so incredibly unfair. 
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  • How horrible, I couldn't even imagine.  My thoughts are with her.
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  • That's so awful. I'm so sorry for your co-worker. Thoughts and prayers to her.
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  • Ugh, this has been the worst week for this. Besides mine, this is now the fourth one I have heard about this week. Was there a full moon or something? This is awful, Betty. Major T&P for her. Absolutely heartbreaking. I hope something works for them and they can start a family by whatever means they need. Just awful.
    Oh, FFS.
  • There is a poster on GP going through a very similar thing right now. Are they the same person?

    T&P go out to your coworker. A loss is heartbreaking by itself but these circumstances make it even worse.  

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  • People who insist that they're IF with no proof of that and start b1tching after they've been trying for 3 months should be forced to read this story and shut their   f00king mouths.
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