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My husband is sending mixed signals

Soooo, baby fever, still have it.

Eariler this week I told DH I was ready, as for months he's been saying every combination of "we need to make Zac a little brother" that his penis brain can think of.

Well now that it's out there he won't even come close to me. He won't come close to my 45 pound lighter body. My Zumba moves. Nothing.

Like, now he's got cold feet.

What the frick? I was the one holding us back before, he's been ready for ages... or so that's what he lead me to believe. 

Grr.
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Re: My husband is sending mixed signals

  • I don't know how your DH acted wtih Zac, but I thought this was a typical DH thing.  My husband has been wanting kids since the day we got married, and he still freaked out a little when we started trying and when we actually got pregnant.  I don't know why this little phenomenon happens, I think it just does.

    Hopefully he gets over it soon!

    "And on the keyboard, the Big D himself, Rusty Shackleford!"
    Lilypie Maternity tickers
  • Ugh, that stinks.  My H is totally ready and I am too, but sometimes I still think holy cow I am so nervous about how this will change my/our life.  But I know that we have waited a long time and now it's time to get serious about it.  Perhaps your husband is like me and nervous about how much things will change, even though he has wanted it for a long time?
  • Jake was all for getting pregnant (I think he was mostly excited about the sex), but after it happened he acted weird. He's just now starting to act really excited about the baby and pregnancy. I think guys have a harder time getting into it because they don't have that instinct to get pregnant like we do.

    Hope you two can make something work.

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    Neena Mae. 1/7/10
    "A baby nursing at a mother's breast is an undeniable affirmation of our rootedness in nature." - David Suzuki
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