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Rant

So H and I are renting out his fathers house. We have a roommate, H's best friend since elementary school. We know our roommate is planning on moving out this summer and we know things are going to change. Rent going up, etc. We're okay with that. I just spoke with my FIL about this tonight and he started mentioning about how he may now move back in, HELL NO! And now H's brother is having issues where he is living and may move back in too. WTF?? I get that family is family, but they are two of the most intrusive/bratty/passive aggressive people I know and I am hoping to god that they don't do this. I told him that H and I would find another place and he goes, 'oh I'm not kicking you guys out'. Lol, that's not the problem! I love them both, but not when I'm living with them, been there, done that for a short time and it was awful! Plus H doesn't get along with either of them when they all live together, it would be a total mess and we're also TTC. Ah! I hate this. I knew there would be strings attached when we agreed to rent FIL's house, but I didn't think I might end up with the whole damn family! Now I'm just playing the waiting game, hope I hear back from Boeing within the next few months and then hopefully we can just buy FIL's house and draw up a contract or find another house in this area. It just sucks, but rant over. Thanks for listening!

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  • I hope you guys can get things figured out sooner rather than later!!!
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  • imageJohlise:
    I hope you guys can get things figured out sooner rather than later!!!

    Thanks! Me too. I can already feel the anxiousness in my chest. Grr!

  • imageBrandyL10:

    imageJohlise:
    I hope you guys can get things figured out sooner rather than later!!!

    Thanks! Me too. I can already feel the anxiousness in my chest. Grr!

    Sad that's crappy! 

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  • Wow! No way no how! I get it's his house and you guys are renting it from him, but I hope you guys can work something else out. Living with family after you're married is so uncomfortable, and not that I want kids, but I can't imagine TTC in that situation. The stress alone would kill the mood, let alone whatever your body decides to do. 

    Fingers crossed for Boeing! 

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  • yeah, i would move. sorry you have to deal with that!
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  • I would move! Good luck! Sorry you're dealing with this!
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  • This totally sucks. I would totally move.

    It'd be different if the situation were me inviting my in-laws or parents to move in with us into our home, and even that makes me twitch very slightly.

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  • Yikes! This sounds super stressful. I'm sorry!
  • Could you guys just find another place? That way he can live in his house and you don't have to be apart of it? It isn't the best solution but maybe the only?
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  • imagesarack:
    Could you guys just find another place? That way he can live in his house and you don't have to be apart of it? It isn't the best solution but maybe the only?

        I know we can find a place easy. Renting wise. Buying I still need a FT job. But that should be coming. And I told him that if things go that way, him and H's brother move in, then we will find a house. Only thing is H is attached to the house, where he grew up in, blah blah blah. But last night when i talked to him about it he said he wouldn't mind moving if that was the case. We'll see! I'm not against getting a new house that would be OURS, not one with strings attached.

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    imagesarack:
    Could you guys just find another place? That way he can live in his house and you don't have to be apart of it? It isn't the best solution but maybe the only?

        I know we can find a place easy. Renting wise. Buying I still need a FT job. But that should be coming. And I told him that if things go that way, him and H's brother move in, then we will find a house. Only thing is H is attached to the house, where he grew up in, blah blah blah. But last night when i talked to him about it he said he wouldn't mind moving if that was the case. We'll see! I'm not against getting a new house that would be OURS, not one with strings attached.

    unless his dad sells you the place, it sounds like he'll just come and go as he sees fit. i couldn't live like that. you should get a place that is just yours.. even if you have to rent for 6mo or a year.. you'll be happier in a place that is yours. and i get it that he likes the house he grew up in.. but you guys need to make a new place your own! i hope everything works out. dont' stress until something happens.
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  • Thanks guys! It makes me feel better knowing that I'm not crazy for being annoyed about this. I feel like I'm being a biitch or something. Love you guys!!
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